The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

Uncover the hidden drama sabotaging marriages everywhere! Marriage coach Christa explores protest behaviors - the unconscious patterns where spouses criticize, withdraw, create drama, or become passive-aggressive instead of directly communicating their needs. Discover why your partner acts out instead of speaking up through specific protest behaviors for each Enneagram type, from Type 1 criticism when feeling unappreciated to Type 9 passive resistance when feeling unheard. Learn why we protest instead of asking directly (fear, past rejection, learned patterns) and discover the "protest to request" translation guide that ends sabotage and creates real connection. Includes practical solutions for recognizing your own hidden drama patterns and responding to your partner's underlying needs rather than their difficult behavior. Watch on YouTube! Want to get healthy together as a couple this Fall? Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠ here! ⁠⁠⁠ Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The 5-9 After Your 9-5: Creating Evening Routines That Actually Stick

The 5-9 After Your 9-5: Creating Evening Routines That Actually Stick

Transform your evenings with sustainable routines inspired by Benjamin Franklin's daily reflection practice! Here in this fast-listen Fall opener, Christa shares her personal 5-9 routine and Reddit r...

18 Aug 202523min

An E + M Vacation Special: The Great European Adventure Audio Diary

An E + M Vacation Special: The Great European Adventure Audio Diary

Join marriage coach Christa for a delightfully honest audio diary of her European family adventure! From London subway mishaps to finding her great-grandmother's mysterious grave on the Croatian islan...

13 Aug 20251h 19min

What We Find in the Dark w/Aubrey Samson, 4: Finding God in the Midnight Hours of Our Lives

What We Find in the Dark w/Aubrey Samson, 4: Finding God in the Midnight Hours of Our Lives

Navigate the midnight hours of life and faith with profound wisdom from author Aubrey Sampson, Enneagram 4 (4-7 pairing), as we discover what we actually find in spiritual darkness through Aubrey's so...

11 Aug 202538min

How Superhero Teams Shine Together: Jurassic, Fantastic 4, Cobra Kai & Superman Show Us The Glow

How Superhero Teams Shine Together: Jurassic, Fantastic 4, Cobra Kai & Superman Show Us The Glow

Discover your relationship's hidden superpowers through summer blockbuster wisdom! Christa (7) and Melody (9) explore how storylines and superhero teams demonstrate the best and worst of personality ....

6 Aug 202544min

From Observation to Transformation: The Enneagram in the Natural World w. Dr. Angela Rosenberg, 2

From Observation to Transformation: The Enneagram in the Natural World w. Dr. Angela Rosenberg, 2

Have you noticed humans learn better through story, metaphor, and the five senses than through thinking alone? Discover the fun of personality growth through the extraordinary lens of personality patt...

4 Aug 202553min

Sexual Integration: Accessing Your Intimate Superpower

Sexual Integration: Accessing Your Intimate Superpower

Discover your intimate superpower through sexual integration! In this finale episode, marriage coach Christa reveals what healthy sexual expression looks like for each Enneagram type - from Type 1's r...

30 Juli 202522min

When Types Collide: Navigating Sexual Shadows and Growth

When Types Collide: Navigating Sexual Shadows and Growth

Navigate sexual challenges with compassion through understanding Enneagram shadows in intimacy! Marriage coach Christa explores how each type's protective patterns create predictable conflicts - from ...

28 Juli 202521min

How to Map Your Spouse's Pleasure Languages & Sensory Preferences

How to Map Your Spouse's Pleasure Languages & Sensory Preferences

Discover the secret pleasure languages that could revolutionize your intimate connection! In this episode of the summer sizzle series, marriage coach Christa reveals how each Enneagram type has a uniq...

23 Juli 202518min

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