Poco a Poco with Dave and Jennifer23 Okt 2024

Episode 3: Sacred Sacrifice - Finding Freedom Through Letting Go

Dave and Jen dive into the complexities of building a new life in Valencia as they approach their first major milestones - Jen's birthday and their first visitor from home. They open up about the countless challenges of establishing basic life systems in a new country, from multiple attempts at opening a bank account to navigating visa complications with seemingly endless document requirements.

Through these daily frustrations, they uncover deeper truths about their relationship dynamics. Dave shares his struggle with perfectionism and self-criticism, revealing how his quick solutions often mask an intense inner dialogue. Meanwhile, Jen discusses her journey of breaking free from people-pleasing patterns, particularly how differently she moves through life when Dave is traveling versus when he's home.

The heart of their conversation centers on spiritual growth and personal freedom. Dave introduces the distinction between doing things to be "hot" versus "holy" - a paradigm shift that's reshaping how they both approach personal development. This leads to Jen's powerful realization about sacrifice and trust, exploring how letting go of control might actually be the key to deeper spiritual connection.

They discuss the unexpected difficulties of maintaining individuality within a relationship, especially in a new environment where everything feels uncertain. Their raw and honest dialogue offers insights into how partners can support each other's growth while maintaining their individual paths.

Dave and Jen continue to discover how trusting in something bigger than themselves is transforming their family's adventure in Spain, poco a poco.

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Episode 12: Coming Full Circle - Home for the Holidays and Back Again

In this season finale, Dave and Jen take us on their wild holiday adventure back to Canada - complete with missed taxis, train station sprints, and an airline official suggesting they stuff their 50-p...

22 Jan 202543min

Episode 11: 5 Unexpected Lessons from Moving Our Family Overseas

When Dave and Jen first packed up their three kids and moved to Spain, they thought they knew what lessons were coming. But after four months abroad, they're here to share the surprising truths they n...

19 Dec 202430min

Episode 10: Coming Back Better - The Hidden Gifts of Living Abroad Together

Fifteen weeks into their Spanish adventure, Dave and Jen reflect deeply on how living abroad has unexpectedly transformed their marriage. What started as a family adventure has become a profound journ...

11 Dec 202434min

Episode 9: Beyond Tolerance - Creating Space When Everything Feels Full

In this episode, Dave and Jen kick off by admitting they really didn't want to record - but as often happens, their hesitation gives way to one of their most meaningful conversations. What unfolds is ...

4 Dec 202436min

Episode 8: The Art of Clearing - Having Hard Conversations That Matter

After experiencing an unexpected disappearance from their children's football manager in Spain, Dave and Jen explore the art of "clearings" - intentional conversations designed to reset and strengthen...

27 Nov 202439min

Episode 7: Making the Soup - A Fresh Approach to Family Communication

In episode 7, Dave and Jen share their experience of reaching a significant milestone - submitting their Spanish visa applications just 48 hours before their tourist visas expire. This achievement cre...

20 Nov 202436min

Episode 6: The Essence vs The State: Finding Perspective in Spanish Grammar

Dave and Jen hit the halfway point of their first season and reflect on where they expected to be versus where they actually are in their Spanish journey. What started as a hopeful transition period h...

13 Nov 202431min

Episode 5: Storms & Self-Recognition - Navigating Life's Contrasts

In episode 5, Dave and Jen share a week of significant contrast in their Spanish adventure, from hosting their first extended family visit to experiencing the devastating impact of natural disaster in...

6 Nov 202433min