EP455 – Soloamory: The Ultimate Self-Love Relationship

Welcome to episode 403 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Jean Franzblau.In this conversation, we discuss the meaning of kink, sexual shame, and the misrepresentation of kinky behaviors in media. They also discuss the importance of consent, safe words, and the impact of cultural norms on sexual expression.As an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, Jean Franzblau helps actors perform sexy scenes with respect and care. This year she made a decision to disclose her private backstory. She is the writer and performer of My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky. It's an award-winning solo play which is now on tour. Passionate to share what she has learned, she created the Sexual Bucket List online class. You can find Jean featured in Rolling Stone and as a guest expert on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Kink and Its Cultural Context·      Media Representation of Kink·      Personal Experiences and Reflections on Kink·      Sexual Shame and Healing·      Discovering Kinks and Early Memories·      Communicating Desires in Relationships·      Tools for Safe Exploration of Kinks·      Understanding Slow Healing Kink·      Resources and Tools for Exploring Kink FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10 Sep 202438min

Welcome to episode 402 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with a professional dominatrix and author - Tina Horn. In this conversation, we discuss her book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink, the evolution of Internet platforms for sex workers, and the politics surrounding sex work and bodily autonomy. Tina Horn is a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. Her book of fetish cultural criticism based on her long-running indie podcast Why Are People Into That?! will be out in June 2024 from Hachette. Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex (Image), and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited. Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centers all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theater, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence. In this episode, you will hear:·       Understanding Anal Sex Myths·       Anatomy and Safe Practices·       Exploring Anal Play·       Fisting and Safety·       Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health·       Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex·       Anal Orgasms and Prostate StimulationFirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech’s TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance.Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code “Sexology”Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

3 Sep 202445min

EP401 - A Little Behind: Exploring Anal Play and PleasureWelcome to episode 401 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Evan Goldstein. In this conversation, we discuss his new comprehensive book on anal sex ‘Butt Seriously’, safe practices for anal engagement, the impact of diet on anal health, and the exploration of anal orgasms.Dr. Evan Goldstein is the leading anal health expert in the United States, founder of Future Method, and one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. He holds a perennial spot on the list of top doctors for the New York metro area, and Crain’s New York Business lists him as one of its notable LGBTQ+ leaders and executives. He has been featured in national publications including GQ, Well+Good, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, New York Magazine, Forbes, Fast Company, Out, and Shape; is a popular podcast guest; and in demand as a speaker for both medical and sex-positive industries.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Anal Sex Myths·      Anatomy and Safe Practices·      Exploring Anal Play·      Fisting and Safety·      Diet and Hygiene for Anal Health·      Hemorrhoids and Anal Sex·      Anal Orgasms and Prostate Stimulation Discover if you have Erectile Dysfunction and what to do about it: Take Our ED QuizWatch EP 273 with Dr. Evan: The Best Ways to Enjoy Anal Sex Safely with Dr. Evan GoldsteinFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

27 Aug 202444min

Welcome to episode 400 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm thrilled to be speaking with Susan Morgan Taylor. In our conversation, we delve into the sexual polarity that draws partners together, highlighting the significance of embodying and shifting between masculine and feminine energies. We also explore ways for couples to reconnect, focusing on the importance of conscious intimacy practices and effective communication, including the idea of 'sacred dialogue'.Susan Morgan Taylor graduated from UC Santa Barbara in 1998 and soon after became a licensed massage therapist. However, her true calling lay elsewhere. In 2008, she began formal training in alternative energy healing and the intuitive arts, leading her to a new path as a spiritual teacher, somatic sex therapist, and intuitive healer. Susan's journey was filled with challenges, mistakes, and growth. Her friend and mentor, Teresa Tingle, played a crucial role in her development, providing guidance that went beyond classroom learning. By 2008, Susan was working professionally as a medical intuitive and spiritual guide.In 2011, Susan earned a master’s degree in Professional Counseling and pursued sex therapy, building a successful practice in Austin, TX. After ten years, she transitioned to focus solely on intimacy and somatic sex coaching for couples and individuals, continuing her dedication to healing and personal growth.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Understanding the Loss of Sexual Charge·      Reviving Sexual Polarity·      Embodied Intimacy Practices·      Creating Space for Passion·      The Dance of Desire and Communication·      Clarifying Sexual Intentions·      Navigating Oral Sex Preferences·      Blowjob Tips for Enjoyment·      Cultivating Self-Pleasure·      Reigniting Passion in Relationships  Congrats to beloved.dom42 our 400th Episode Giveaway Winner!  Get Your List of 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship HOT!Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

20 Aug 202446min

Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection. Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules. In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie·      Maintaining the Spark in Marriage·      Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage·      Personal Growth Amidst Challenges·      Curiosity and Relationship Agreements·      Defining Cheating in Relationships·      Navigating Fidelity Conversations·      Understanding Family Scripts·      Setting Boundaries and Communication·      Self-Discovery and Independence·      Feeling Sexy and Confident  Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Get Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

13 Aug 202442min

Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people. Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma. Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”In this episode, you will hear: ·      Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief·      Defining Sexual Grief·      Identity and Sexual Trauma·      Developmental Sexual Grief·      Sexual Grief and Trauma·      Clinical Responses·      First Sexual Experiences·      Hostage Situation in Grief·      Curiosity and Exploration·      Conservative Backgrounds and Shame·      Recovering from Sexual Grief Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth! Grab a HUGE 30% Discount HERE using code SEXOLOGY Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

6 Aug 202430min

Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues. Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals·      Sensory Sensitivity Explained·      Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity·      Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity·      Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner·      Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships·      Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People·      Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

30 Juli 202437min

Welcome to episode 396 of the Sexology Podcast! In today's solo episode, we’re excited to delve into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies. We’ll be featuring insights from esteemed sex therapists and educators who will provide a deep understanding of this intriguing topic. We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins. In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Exploring Sexual Fantasies·      Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires·      Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success·      Social Learning: How Our Environment Shapes Fantasies·      Integrative Approach: Combining Psychological Theories·      Common Fantasies: Group Sex and Taboo Themes·      How Cultural Backgrounds Shape Fantasies·      Normalizing Fantasies for Self-Acceptance Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning.Afternoon DelightPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

23 Juli 202428min