5 Causes Of Unrequited Love and How To Prevent Them

5 Causes Of Unrequited Love and How To Prevent Them

There’s a ridiculously simple principle Matt talks about in his seminars. So simple it seems kind of silly. Naïve even. But it’s actually great.

It goes like this: “Make it a rule only to like people who like you back. If you can do that, you’ll never go wrong.”

Sounds tough, I know.

After all, attraction isn’t a simple choice right?

Many of us feel we have no control over who we become attracted to, which can often lead to that great generator of humanity’s worst misery and best poetry: Unrequited love.

Unrequited love is when we fall hard in love with someone who don’t love us back. It’s the painful kind of obsession that keeps you awake at night, and sees you spending hours at your laptop obsessively scouring your crush’s Facebook profile praying that they don’t change their status to “in a relationship”, or that makes your stomach convulse at the thought of catching them kissing another person.

If you've ever fallen hard for someone who doesn't return your feelings, here 5 reasons this happens and what you can do to get your life back...

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(998)

Are You Giving Too Much in Your Relationships? | Rewind

Are You Giving Too Much in Your Relationships? | Rewind

Have you ever realized that you’re the one keeping a relationship alive?You’re the one who reaches out. The one who checks in. The one who remembers, helps, gives, and shows up. And after a while, ins...

18 Sep 17min

13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want You More | Rewind

13 Subtle Ways to Make Him Want You More | Rewind

There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with them.Sometimes we’re ...

11 Sep 17min

3 Traps Keeping You Stuck After Narcissistic Betrayal | Matt Monday

3 Traps Keeping You Stuck After Narcissistic Betrayal | Matt Monday

Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over?You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question yourself. And yet, eve...

7 Sep 17min

What Men Say vs. What They Really Mean | Rewind

What Men Say vs. What They Really Mean | Rewind

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?”Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but continues acting like you...

4 Sep 16min

Are You Mistaking Red Flags for Chemistry? | Rewind

Are You Mistaking Red Flags for Chemistry? | Rewind

Have you ever wondered why you can feel so much chemistry with someone who's inconsistent, unavailable, or clearly wrong for you... yet struggle to feel the same spark with someone who actually treats...

28 Aug 14min

The #1 sign you’re about to find love | Matt Monday

The #1 sign you’re about to find love | Matt Monday

Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget:“I feel like I’m not worthy.”Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had s...

24 Aug 27min

Will They Lose Interest After You Sleep Together? | Rewind

Will They Lose Interest After You Sleep Together? | Rewind

Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull ...

21 Aug 19min

How to Know If You're Being Love Bombed | Rewind

How to Know If You're Being Love Bombed | Rewind

It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for.The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the future, make you feel chose...

14 Aug 12min

Populärt inom Utbildning

historiepodden-se
rss-bara-en-till-om-beroende-medberoende
det-skaver
nu-blir-det-historia
harrisons-dramatiska-historia
not-fanny-anymore
roda-vita-rosen
rss-viktmedicinpodden
allt-du-velat-veta
johannes-hansen-podcast
sa-in-i-sjalen
rikatillsammans-om-privatekonomi-rikedom-i-livet
rss-traningsklubben
polisutbildningspodden
rss-foraldramotet-bring-lagercrantz
rss-max-tant-med-max-villman
rss-basta-livet
sektledare
rss-autismandan
i-vantan-pa-katastrofen