Ep. 306 - How do I build a life after my breakup that actually feels better?

In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Braveheart Maria talk about the tools to help you trust the process of moving on. Maria provides tactical tools for a variety of getting over your ex experiences. Join them as they talk about Maria’s journey from dealing with her ex leaving, managing life changing exams, living alone in a different country, and working with her ex, to finally feeling free and secure on her own.

29 Jan 202432min

Today we explore the transformative concept of embodying a state of being rather than just attempting it, drawing inspiration from the book "A Happy Pocket Full of Money." Using the context of getting over an ex, the episode delves into the significance of aligning thoughts, feelings, and actions with the authentic self. The host emphasizes the power of deciding to be over an ex, challenging the conventional belief that actions and feelings precede the state of being. Drawing parallels with her personal life, the episode illustrates how decisive action yields more substantial results compared to scattered efforts. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their approach, confront self-deception, and truly commit to overcoming past relationships. Leave this episode knowing the exact steps to deciding to get over your ex.

22 Jan 202424min

Join me in this episode as we unpack a pivotal coaching session, where one remarkable client grappled with the concept of closure and moving beyond an on-again, off-again relationship. Discover the journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we explore the fears that often anchor us to past relationships, the allure of familiarity versus the unknown, and the profound realization that progress isn't linear. Celebrating moments of growth, we unravel the client's initial doubts, ultimately revealing how not returning to her past was the true testament to her transformation. Reflect on your own journey and fears, and embrace the power of progress even in moments that might seem like setbacks. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on embracing closure and the triumphs found in moving forward.

15 Jan 202415min

In today’s episode we explore the intricate layers of shame before, during, and after a breakup. Drawing from a recent coaching session, Breakup Coach Dorothy navigates the often-overlooked aspects of shame. This episode serves as a beacon for those wrestling with breakup-induced shame, offering actionable steps towards self-affirmation, self-love, and personal empowerment in the journey towards healing and self-discovery. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on overcoming shame and embracing resilience in the aftermath of a breakup.

8 Jan 202422min

In today’s episode we discuss the broader issue of feeling behind in life due to attachments. Exploring the concept of time constraints and the freedom of choice, we realize life can be fulfilling both with and without specific outcomes. This philosophy extends beyond relationships, encompassing career aspirations and personal goals. Learn one question that will completely shift your perspective of being behind and running out of time after your breakup so that you can feel at peace without giving up on what you want. Learn 3 mind blowing moments that will forever change your breakup journey with our free on demand video training!  How to Fast Forward Getting Over Your Ex – without wasting months (or years) feeling angry, jealous or unlovable: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/overyourexpodcast

1 Jan 202415min

In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and guest Kara talk about breakups and the patriarchy. Kara Loewentheil, J.D., is a Master Certified Coach, host of the top-rated podcast UnF*ck Your Brain, and creator of The Clutch, a feminist monthly coaching program that has helped tens of thousands of women across the world liberate themselves from the inside out. Kara specializes in teaching a step-by-step system that identifies and removes internalized oppression and creates new and unshakeable self-confidence. Join them as they talk about the true impact of patriarchy on our brains and take a deeper look into this concept and how it applies to you. Get a copy of her book:  https://www.takebackyourbrainbook.com/

25 Dec 202341min

Join Breakup Coach Dorothy in this candid and soul-stirring episode as she reflects on her transformative journey throughout 2023. Dorothy shares her most pivotal lesson of the year, through personal upheavals. She dives deep into manifesting desires while finding contentment in the current reality, urging listeners to send coherent messages to the universe and appreciate life's unexpected joys. With vulnerability and wisdom, Dorothy invites reflection through thought-provoking questions, encouraging listeners to discover self-acceptance, gratitude, and empowerment. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that transcends setbacks, guiding you towards embracing life's uncertainties and finding beauty in the loss. Start the year with the free on demand video training! How to Fast Forward Getting Over Your Ex – without spending months (or years) feeling angry, jealous, or unlovable.  https://dorothyabjohnson.com/overyourexpodcast/

18 Dec 202324min

In this episode we explore transforming post-breakup holiday blues into a joyful experience. Breakup Coach Dorothy challenges preconceptions, sharing personal insights from fasting and handling misconceptions around miscarriage. She encourages listeners to see breakup holidays as a menu offering various experiences beyond misery, emphasizing the power of perspective. You’ll leave with a 3 step process that helps you curate a fulfilling holiday season despite the breakup. This episode serves as a guide to reframe and create a joyous holiday experience on individual terms. Don’t forget your free on demand video training!  How to FAST FORWARD getting over your ex – without wasting months (or years) feeling angry, jealous or unlovable: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/overyourexpodcast

11 Dec 202321min