#451 F-ing vs. Making Love: What's the Difference?

In this ad-free episode we are celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting a number of our amazing black educators, artists, and doctors who have shared their brilliant wisdom and gifts on our show. From love, dating and finding "the one" to riding him like a cowgirl, oral sex/fellatio, swallowing and deep-throating, and kink/BDSM/bondage - these 7-10 minute clips will blow your mind! For full episodes be sure to check out the following on your favorite podcast app: Damona Hoffman #365 Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story Tyomi #344 How to Ride that D like a Cowgirl Jody ProHoeVocative #387 Pleasing That D from a Fellatio Expert Dr. Ianessa Humbert #329 Swallowing, Oral Sex, and Deep-Thorating Orpheus Black #333 Tie Me Up! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

27 Feb 47min

Are you ready to explore the future of pleasure? Dive into the vibrant world of sexual wellness with intimacy expert Susan Bratton, as we uncover the most exciting sex trends of 2025 in this hilarious and insightful second part of our two-part series! In this episode, you’ll learn about: Yummy Gummy Sex: Discover how candy flips, love gummies, and even shroom sex are revolutionizing your intimate encounters. At Home STI-Testing: Find out why the pandemic led to a new era in sexual health and how you can test with ease from home. The Clean Sex Oil Movement: Get the scoop on eco-friendly, sustainably packaged sex oils that are redefining self-care. Penis Empowerment & P-Spot Activation: Explore advanced techniques that shift focus from the tip to deeper, more fulfilling experiences. Sex Treat and Retreats: Learn about indulgent getaways that blend goddess embodiment and Tantric exploration, including our very own Shameless Sex retreat in Palm Springs! Join us for a lively conversation filled with playful banter and expert advice from Susan Bratton, a trusted intimacy expert whose work has empowered millions to enhance their sexual lives. So, whether you're a seasoned lover or just curious about what’s next in the world of sex and intimacy, this episode promises to be entertaining and insightful. Teaser:  By tuning in, you’ll gain practical tips and product recommendations to easily access these trends, ensuring your sex life remains fresh, exciting, and profoundly pleasurable. Links & Socials: Get all the products featured in this episode at: www.AprilAmy.com  To learn more about our guest expert visit: www.susanbratton.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

25 Feb 51min

What if we told you that the future of pleasure is not just about the act, but a full-on experience? Buckle up, sexplorers! In this hilariously enlightening episode of Shameless Sex, intimacy expert Susan Bratton is here to spill the tea on the wildest and most innovative sex trends of 2025! Get ready to redefine your pleasure game with insights that are as spicy as they are smart. What you’ll learn: Yoni Massage and Lay-Ons: Discover how this tech-enabled Tantric technique can bring you and your partner closer, whether you're a DIY enthusiast or looking to pamper her! Sex Tech Revolution: From warmth and inflation to photobiomodulation and app-driven orgasm meditation, dive into the fancy-pancy world of next-gen pleasure devices! The New Relationship Landscape: Forget monogamy; we’re diving into the delicious chaos of “SWICY” relationships—sweet and spicy is the new vanilla! Orgasmic Cross-Training: Ready to level up your pleasure? Learn about slow-switch muscles and how to maximize your orgasms together like never before! Sexual Biohacking: Say goodbye to geriatric genitalia! Discover how the “OLDs” are rejuvenating their intimate lives and why you should too. Susan Bratton isn’t just an expert; she’s the intimacy guru to millions, with a treasure trove of tips and product recommendations that will have you saying, “Yes, please!” This episode is packed with laughter, insight, and actionable advice that will leave you feeling empowered and eager to explore. Why tune in? Unlock Pleasure: Gain access to cutting-edge trends that can enhance your sexual experiences. Ignite Your Sex Life: Whether solo or coupled, learn how to embrace new dynamics and explore deeper connections and hotter sex. Stay Ahead of the Curve: Be the first in your friend group to know what's hot in the world of sex! So, are you ready to embrace the future of pleasure? Tune in for a fun and fabulous chat that’s sure to tickle your fancy and ignite your passions. Stick around until the end for a sneak peek of Part 2, where we’ll dive even deeper into the sex trends that are set to rock your world!  Links & Socials: Get all the products featured in this episode at: www.AprilAmy.com  To learn more about our guest expert visit: www.susanbratton.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

18 Feb 1h 4min

Navigating Love in the Digital Age with Nico Vellotta! Ready to spice up your relationship and break the taboo around sex talk? Join us as we dive into the fascinating world of AI and intimacy with the incredible Nico Vellotta, Head of Relationship Science at Arya! In this episode, we’re getting real about how technology is transforming our love lives.  Here’s what you can look forward to: Nico’s Journey: Ever wonder how someone becomes a leading voice in sexuality? Nico shares his inspiring path to the forefront of couples wellness.  Meet Arya: Discover how Arya, the innovative AI intimacy platform, is revolutionizing communication in the bedroom.  Millennial Magic: Why are 80% of Arya’s users millennial women? We break down the stats and reveal the secrets behind this trend. The 7-Year Itch: What is it, and how can you avoid it? Nico’s got the scoop! Awkward Conversations Made Easy: Learn how Arya helps couples tackle uncomfortable discussions about sex, making intimacy feel more accessible and enjoyable. Did you know that 75% of couples reported feeling closer after improving their communication? Tech Talk: AI in relationships might sound daunting, but Nico shares his top tips for couples hesitant to embrace new tech in their love lives. Why should you tune in?  Because improving your relationship doesn’t have to be boring or uncomfortable—it can be fun, enlightening, and totally relatable! Ready to enhance your intimacy game? Don’t miss this episode full of insights, laughs, and practical advice to help you and your partner thrive! Teaser:  What if AI could be your new best friend in the bedroom? Tune in to discover how to unlock deeper connections today!  Links & Socials: - Learn more about Arya and get 15% off with code SHAMELESS: [arya.fyi] - Explore relationship trends: [arya.fyi/trends] - Follow Nico on Instagram: [@mind_on_love] - Check out Arya: [@arya.fyi] Why not let AI strengthen your relationship, improve your communication, and reignite that spark? The future of relationships has arrived and it's waiting for you.  Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

11 Feb 1h 8min

Get ready to dive into the most tantalizing episode yet of the Shameless Sex Podcast! This week, we’re chatting with Rob Perkins, one of the geniuses behind OMGyes.com, a groundbreaking platform that’s all about unlocking the secrets of pleasure. If you’ve ever wondered how to spice up your sex life or tap into new realms of satisfaction—this episode is for you! What to Expect: OMGyes Origin Story: Discover how he went from a curious mind to the co-founder of OMGyes, shaping the conversation around sexuality and pleasure. Research Magic: Ever wondered how they gather insights from thousands of folks? Rob spills the tea on their innovative research methods and how they choose their pleasure categories. Results That Matter: Spoiler alert—learning new techniques really can rev up your sexual satisfaction! Perfect timing for those Valentine’s Day plans, right? Techniques that Rock: While we won't reveal every juicy detail, hear about the life-changing techniques that have our hosts buzzing (hello, clitoral swirls and OMGYes Bingo!). Couples and Pleasure: What’s the scoop on partnered sex? Rob shares insights into current research and how couples can benefit. Immaculate Education: What is this intriguing concept? Rob gives us the lowdown on how it’s helping people understand pleasure like never before. Men and Generosity: Are men stepping up their game in the bedroom? You’ll want to hear Rob’s thoughts on this shift! What’s Next for OMGyes: Get a sneak peek at what’s on the horizon for this innovative platform. So, if you’re ready to enhance your pleasure game and have a few laughs along the way, tune in! Trust us, you won’t want to miss this one. And hey, for those eager to explore more, check out OMGyes.com/shameless for a treasure trove of info! Oh…my…gawwd…yes! Let’s get shameless! To learn more and to get 10% off mastering the art of pleasure go to  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get tickets to What Is Erotic? in Santa Cruz Feb 14-15 and 21-22 here: https://the418project.org Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

8 Feb 45min

Are you tired of chasing the elusive "great" sex? Let’s bust some myths and redefine what pleasure really means! Join Shameless Sex podcast hosts Amy and April as they dive into the myths and realities about what truly makes sex "great." This fun, no-holds-barred discussion will explore misconceptions surrounding sex and satisfaction. What You’ll Learn: Simultaneous Orgasms: Are they really the ultimate goal? Spoiler: they’re rarer than you think. Sex Toys: Enhancing pleasure or a threat to intimacy? Discover how they can spice things up! Desensitization Dilemma: Do vibrators really numb your sensitivity? Let’s clear the air on this common fear. Duration Expectations: How long should sex last? You might be surprised by what the experts and the statistics say. The "Pillow Princess" Debate: Is it okay to enjoy receiving pleasure without giving? We break down the stereotypes. Join the Shameless Sex hosts as they unveil eye-opening research and compelling stats that debunk common sexual misconceptions. With playful tips and tricks, they’ll show you how to elevate your sex from good to GREAT! Tune in for relatable insights that are sure to entertain and spark your curiosity about your own sexual journey, as well as those age-old beliefs about sex that many still cling to today. Whether you're navigating a long-term relationship or diving into the dating scene, this episode will challenge your assumptions and reveal what truly makes sex fulfilling..and great. Get ready to shift your perspective and revel in the joy of pleasure—your next favorite episode is just a play button away! Teaser:  Ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about sex? Join us as we uncover the truths behind the myths and celebrate what “great” sex really means! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Early Valentine's Day Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

4 Feb 50min

Get ready to dive into the cheeky side of health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, the leading anal health expert in the U.S. In this episode, we’re exploring all things butt-related in a fun and relatable way, thanks to Dr. Goldstein’s brilliant book, *Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between.” What to Expect Humor Meets Health: Why did Dr. Goldstein sprinkle his book with puns? Was it all part of the plan, or just a cheeky bonus? Expert Insights: What does it truly mean to be the top anal health guru in America? Burning Questions: What are the most common questions about anal play and what should everyone know about the backdoor?   Myth-Busting: We’ll tackle the biggest misconceptions surrounding anal health and pleasure (even Amy got new backdoor knowledge!). Tips for Bliss: Want to enhance your intimate experiences? Dr. Goldstein shares his top strategies for achieving ultimate sexual bliss through anal play. Health Essentials: Discover the key pieces of knowledge everyone should have about maintaining anal health. Plus, we’ll have a rapid-fire round where Dr. Goldstein rates some popular practices—are they hot or not? Healthy or problematic? Get ready to laugh your ass off–figuratively speaking of course. With a background as the founder of Future Method and a surgeon dedicated to restoring the human butt, Dr. Goldstein has been featured in major publications like GQ, Men’s Health, and Cosmopolitan. He is also one of the few surgeons in the world whose practice, Bespoke Surgical, is dedicated to treating and restoring the human butt. You don’t want to miss this enlightening and entertaining conversation that blends expert advice with a dash of humor.  Teaser Curious about how to keep your butt happy and healthy? Tune in and we’ll get to the bottom of it! To learn more go to bespokesurgical.com and click HERE to get your copy of Dr. Goldstein’s amazing book.  Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Download our favorite dating app Feeld on the app store or google play, or go here: https://feeld.co/ Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

28 Jan 1h 11min

Welcome to a playful dive into the world of nonmonogamy with sexologist and content creator, Alexa Andre! Whether you’re curious about exploring new relationship dynamics or just want to understand what nonmonogamy is all about, this episode is your go-to guide for all things love and connection. What to Expect: Alexa’s Journey: Discover how Alexa became a trusted voice in sexuality and relationships. Defining Nonmonogamy: What does it really mean, and who is it for? Benefits & Challenges: Uncover the perks of nonmonogamous living and the hurdles to watch out for. Top Tips for Newbies: Alexa shares her must-do's and don'ts for those just starting out. Managing Jealousy: Can it be learned? Tune in to find out! Rapid Fire Fun: Get ready for some cheeky questions that spark laughter and insight! Why Tune In? This episode is perfect for anyone looking to broaden their understanding of relationships beyond traditional boundaries. With Alexa’s warm and inclusive approach, you’ll feel empowered to ask questions and explore your desires—all in a judgment-free zone! Teaser: Curious about the nitty-gritty of morning sex before brushing your teeth?  Join us for a hilarious yet enlightening conversation that’ll leave you both informed and entertained! Click HERE to check out the In Bed With Alexa podcast and click HERE to book a call with Alexa. Follow Alexa on IG @sexwithalexa  Come to our online Energy Orgasm and Cuddle Yoga Pre-Valentine's Day workshop: https://tinyurl.com/3c9z2y7s Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Early Valentine's Day Special! Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 10% off our new favorite waterproof sexy-time blanket with code SHAMELESS at https://www.amazon.com/promocode/A3J8AXYZZEQC70 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

21 Jan 56min