Episode 259: Is ghosting really that bad?

We continue our mini-series on cheating: today we tackle what cheating looks like in open relationships, how to prevent it, how to navigate it if it happens, and when to cut your losses and move on. Listen in and see if you learn something... you might surprise yourself! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Dec 202234min

One more replay before you get a bunch of new content for the next month to get you through the holidaze! This is a classic episode--one of our first dozen episodes! We recorded this back in 2017, but the content is just as fresh now as it was then. Episode 10 dares to ask the age old question: What's your number? As in, how many people have you hooked up with? How many people have you done the nasty with? How many people have you rounded the bases with? How many people have you been with? ...no matter how you ask the question, our answer is the same. Tune in to hear us discuss "what's in a number?" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Dec 202211min

This week we are replaying one of our favs from the vault--episode 151, about deleting your ex's intimate images and videos. When you break up with a partner, there is a lot of healing and cleaning and resetting that has to happen. And part of that process includes dealing with any intimate images or sexts you may have shared. Today we talk about the conversations, the follow-ups, and even the timeline for the cyber part of your breakup. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Nov 202229min

This week, we are on a mini-holiday vacation from podcasting. But we are replaying one of our fav episodes--one where Spring and Andrew disagree! In episode 58 (original air date early 2019) we address a question submitted where a woman stated that her boyfriend doesn’t like it when she talks about their sex with her friends. This episode was a couple of months in the making: Spring and Andrew originally disagreed with how to answer the question. So, finally, here is the episode, complete with us acknowledging the validity of each other's opinions. Remember, consent is important! For further reading, check out this link or this one on the topic of consent.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Nov 202227min

Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner was secretly masturbating or hiding their use of porn or a vibrator? Have you ever hidden these things from a partner? Today we talk about some of the reasons people may hide these behaviors, how that affects relationships, and what we can do about it (from both sides of the relationship!). Tune in to get your Sex Wrap fix! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Nov 202237min

What are Kegels and who should be doing them? How, why, and how much? All your Kegel basics are here, plus, of course, how they interact with your sex life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Nov 202225min

Today's episode is just a few minutes--with some reminders and a teaser for what to watch out for on our Instagram (@thesexwrap) this week! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Nov 20227min

Shae Harmon is our guest on today's podcast and they are here to talk about trans people's experiences of pleasure and joy and how we can broaden the conversations about sexuality to be more inclusive and expansive. Content warning: there are a few unbleeped words on this episode! Shae (they/them) is a trainee sexologist at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in the UK, soon embarking on their final year. Shae has experience running queer and sex positive events in London, mentoring and supporting queers, running workshops on consent, negotiation, sex menu writing, relationship styles, activism and intimacy. They have been an active participant in restorative justice within various communities. They sometimes blog about trans/non-binary issues for Feeld, COSRT and other sites.  Extra credit links: Shae Harmon Instagram @shaequeertherapy Shae Harmon tiktok @shaequeertherapy  Smut Peddlars Zine (amateur erotica by young, POC, trans and non-binary people) Xan West - cute stories and erotica based on gender and body diverse peeps Fucking Trans Women - Zine by Mira Bellwether  Pinklabel.tv Porn Crashpad Porn Trans Sex, Lucie Fielding - a book for therapists working with Gender Diverse clients Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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