How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE: Truly

SWE: Truly

Emily talks about the differences between Los Angeles and San Francisco men. Her long standing “friend with benefits” relationship comes to a tidy end and Emily breaks down Menace’s love life. Also, vibrating panties and what to do when your partner has no style. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: Female Sex Lives

SWE: Female Sex Lives

Get turned on in this “quickie” episode as Emily interviews a female guest, “Hope” about her sexual exploits. Hope reveals her crazy first time sex experience, thoughts on younger versus older men, and the best position to orgasm. The women also discuss sex toys, fetishes, and a secret oral sex “chin trick.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: Tips from a Dominatrix

SWE: Tips from a Dominatrix

In these two quickie episodes Emily interviews Pro-Dominatrix Sara Miller and also answers popular listener questions. Emily and her guest divulge about first sexual experiences, lesbian sex, orgasm differences, orgies, and ejaculation on command. Listener letters cover topics such as “perfect” dating tips, online profiles, semen landing, and hand jobs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: No Shave November

SWE: No Shave November

In honor of "No Shave November," Emily focuses on manscaping in this episode. Topics include: trimmings tips (not for Thanksgiving), pubic hair styles, "back pussy," vajazzle, and on-air bikini waxes. Emily addresses listener letters including a woman fallen for two men and cheating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: Special Guests Ben and Jen Rodes

SWE: Special Guests Ben and Jen Rodes

Emily is back in San Francisco before heading off to Mexico for the Thanksgiving holiday. She made new friends at the Sex Summit -Ben and Jen Rode- who join her on air. Ben and Jen explain their Explosive Sexual Healing technique whichhelps women achieve half hour g-spot orgasms (this is the way to relax!). Listener letters include: addressing girlfriends who don't like receiving oral sex and crushes in the neighborhood. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: Special Guest Ted Travelstead

SWE: Special Guest Ted Travelstead

Ted Travelstead, Vanity Fair reporter and co-author of Sex: Our Bodies, Our Junk, joins Emily in this throwback episode. Emily and Ted discuss religion and sex, Betty White, the gag-reflex, and the New York City versus San Francisco dating scene. Also, how nice is too nice for a "nice guy"? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Nov 201252min

SWE: Sex Tips from a Dominatrix

SWE: Sex Tips from a Dominatrix

Get dominated by Sarah Miller, Emily's sex school classmate who happens to be a Pro- Dominatrix. Emily talks about getting naked in class, BDSM, and breast orgasms (they really do exist). Emily also talks about sex, drugs, and alchol. For a follow-up lesson on BDSM, check out Sex Tips from a Dominatrix II. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Nov 201255min

SWE: Fall Staycation

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If you're looking to snuggle up and reignite spark in your relationship, a Fall Staycation is a perfect way to spend time with you lover. Emily gives tips for planning a vacation in your bedroom. Emily also answers questions about male-female friendships, squirting, and Emily's favorite-- threesomes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Nov 20121h 2min

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