How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE: Flirting for Dummies

SWE: Flirting for Dummies

Emily and Menace both have sex in the same weekend, but with different people of course. Menace has sex in the shower and the girl didn’t faint this time. A recipe for “panty droppers” a drink that might be true to it’s name,  flirting techniques and the sacred duties of the wingman. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19 Mars 201238min

SWE: CAT position & doggie style

SWE: CAT position & doggie style

Emily shares the biggest sexting mistakes guy makes and whether you are a doggie style person or a CAT person. CAT position is all about clitoral stimulation in Missionary Position, whereas doggie style is more rough and animalistic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16 Mars 20121h 1min

SWE: Steak and Blowjob Day

SWE: Steak and Blowjob Day

It’s BJ & Steak Day. The holiday where women around America give their boyfriends oral sex while making steak at the same time. The holiday was created by angry men in reaction to V-Day, a holiday supposedly for women. Why the backlash guys?Also, oral sex tips, why enthusiasm trumps technique and humming on the hole. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Mars 201224min

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

Emily and Menace get wet over the Container Store, guest Wendy Strgar talks love and intimacy, everybody poops...and everybody snoops, Dick Van Dyke is alive and still getting laid, how far you should go to please your partner, and using lubricant with someone you love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Mars 201237min

SWE: Sex Etiquette

SWE: Sex Etiquette

Emily shows women around the world how to prevent lipstick on the teeth and the best way to tell someone they have something on their face during a first date. Also, never prematurely “babe” someone on a date. Emily teaches male ejaculation etiquette, including keeping her in the loop on  your ejaculation plan. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Mars 20121h 1min

SWE: Prostate Play

SWE: Prostate Play

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the  prostate, or the male G-spot.In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Mars 201242min

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

Emily talks about self-esteem, its effects on your sex life, and how to get your game face on. Earthquakes, sexy shoes, ruining sex for others, enjoying masturbation more than intercourse, and Emily flirts with her exes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Mars 201237min

SWE: Just the Tip

SWE: Just the Tip

Emily discusses all things oral sex, from consummation to cleanup. A show that’s so much more than “just the tip.”Also, couple massages, sleeping with your yoga teacher, birth control for men, and stuff you should never tell someone you’re dating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Mars 20121h 1min

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