Karmic Attraction: Real Stories from the Unconscious Moon

🌕 Real Human Design Stories – Episode 81In Episode 81 of Real Human Design Stories, I’m joined by my dear collaborator Jess Tilly to share something that’s been deeply transformational for both of us: working with karma through our Human Design charts—specifically through the unconscious moon.This is a shorter episode, but one with big impact. We each tell the story of how our own unconscious moon placements (mine in Gate 1.4 and Jess’s in Gate 47) revealed hidden emotional patterns and ancestral influences—and how those stories cracked something open for us during a powerful masterclass in Austin.⸻👤 Guest Introduction: Jess TillyJess Tilly is a 4/6 Sacral Generator and co-creator of The Unwinding, An Intentional Unwinding of Karmic Threads and Conditioned Beliefs. She’s one of the most joy-filled, heart-centered people I know—always inviting transformation with a spark of laughter and grounded truth. In this episode, Jess and I share share our personal stories of Karma Clearing with Human Design. I'll tell you about the insights and experiences that came through from my maternal grandmother via my Unconscious moon in gate 1. Jess shares a deeply personal story about being cracked open by the very gate she resisted most: her unconscious moon in Gate 47.⸻💬 Main Discussion Points• 00:00 – Welcome and what this episode is about• 00:21 – The unconscious moon as a karmic entry point• 01:43 – Kathy’s Gate 1.4 story: family roles, direction, and the feminine lineage• 07:47 – Jess’s Gate 47 experience: the day everything cracked open• 14:22 – What we’ve created from this work: The Unwinding• 17:06 – Feedback from others going through this process⸻✨ Quotes from the Episode“I kept finding myself saying no to things because of how they would make other people in my life feel.” – Kathy Bochonko“I was like, ‘Hopeless? Not me.’ And then… it found me.” – Jess Tilley“These experiences are happening either way. The power is in the awareness.” – Jess Tilley⸻🔗 Ways to Connect More DeeplyWe’d love for you to explore your own karmic themes and join us in this work. Here’s how to take the next step:• Start with your Unconscious MoonDownload the free Karma Attraction Guide to explore the hidden emotional themes in your chart:https://kathybochonko.com/shop/unconscious-moon/• Watch the Karma by Design Masterclass ReplayThis 90-minute workshop walks you through the unconscious moon with guided reflections:https://www.corecalling.com/karma-by-design-masterclass• Join The UnwindingA monthly experience to gently unravel karmic threads and conditioned beliefs using Human Design, storytelling, and reflection.https://docs.google.com/document/d/1jZMfyvm6mTNCwOtErCf65bO-nJ2pJO36_JyX1WsFODU/edit?usp=sharing• Want more context on Karma Clearing by Design™?Listen to Episode 80, which includes reflections on our experience with Chetan Parkyn’s teachings:https://youtu.be/uCqs_oGd9E0?si=QrJ4G-i0WranbhOhYou can also go deeper with the full original episode from our time in Austin (Episode 54):https://youtu.be/JbfGHamLjJ0?si=eJTGpxf0VMGu3BT9• Find all these links in one placeVisit the episode page at: https://www.realhumandesignstories.com⸻📣 Stay Connected• Follow Real Human Design Stories on your favorite podcast platform• Share this episode with someone who’s curious about karma or emotional healing• Watch more episodes on YouTube at @KathyBochonko• Join the conversation in the Intuitive Human Design Facebook group• Explore mentoring, readings, and services at https://kathybochonko.com