When God Says No: A Pre-Selichot Conversation with Rebecca Sarchi (Special Episode)

The tefilot of the Yamim Nora'im - starting from Selichot and continuing through Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur - are deep and meaningful, but also long and often quite hard to understand. But that difficulty is minor compared with the theological problem of how to relate to God when our prayers go unanswered... when He seems to have abandoned us... when rather than a divine nod of approval, we feel like we are getting God's cold shoulder.

This is a topic which Scott discussed over the past two weeks in his Substack, Orthodox Conundrum Commentary; it's also an issue that everyone must confront at one point or another.

To that end, Scott spoke with Rebecca Sarchi, a high school principal living in Johannesburg. Right before Tisha B'Av, her son Chaim tragically passed away; despite their intense tefilot and mitzvah observance, God still said no. Rebecca decided that she wants to address what happened, and describe the ways that a person can maintain faith in the face of unthinkable tragedy.

She does not provide answers; instead, she simply talks about her and her family's experience. She mentions the importance of prayer despite the possibility of God's saying no. She describes the need to cherish every moment, and to live fully in every second. She advocates going outside of yourself, and reaching out to someone else. No, none of these are answers; instead, they are lessons that can hopefully help us gain proper perspective as we enter the end of Elul, and begin the countdown to Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.

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