Why I've Never Dated

Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says! I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight. They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose. And then they’d start having gourmet sex. The kind of sex I teach about, where they are being seen, fed and nourished. Their hearts and genitals are open, and they are being changed by the potency of this deep, sexual love. And then the extra weight evaporates. They don’t do anything different - no changes in their diet or exercise. They just got well-f**ked. Deep, cataclysmic, vaginal orgasms, powerful connections. And suddenly those abs were svelte and chiseled. Like magic. From your orgasms. In this episode: 5 tips to lose belly fat overnight The relationship between cortisol, stress and belly fat Why orgasms burn fat like nothing else How cataclysmic sex transforms your baggage and emotional “weight” Well-f**ked all star Robin shares her story of becoming a widow, being diagnosed with the big C-word, and using her sexuality to alchemize her way through it all, healing herself, working through her grief and losing 60 lb in the process. All through the magical power of orgasms.

9 Juni 202248min

In this episode: Examples of toxic femininity What the balanced and divine feminine looks like How to cultivate it in your daily life Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and transform your blocks and weaknesses into your greatest power. I go into depth and share my personal journey in my nearly year long BDSM relationship where I went deeper than I ever had, and came into balance with my feminine self, learned the art of surrender and came out truly not giving a fuck anymore. I’ll show you how to have the deeper vaginal orgasms, which are what help you to burn through the dross of your life and elevate yourself into your highest potential. La petite mort" the little death and rebirth, indeed. The Well-F**ked Woman salon begins in early July. In the meantime, you can signup for the free preview video series where I dive deeper into feminine power, vaginal orgasms and becoming a well-f**ked woman. https://kimanami.com/the-well-fked-woman/

3 Juni 202221min

In this episode: - How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts- Owning and loving the breasts - Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation- Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding - From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals

27 Maj 202238min

This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover: Natural birth control The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care. The power of self-responsibility and self-governance in all things: especially your vagina Some great crowd-sourced questions about healing reproductive aliments like fibroids, cysts, and my take on STDs

13 Maj 202250min

Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. In today’s episode:Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

28 Apr 202211min

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: BondageDisciplineDominationSubmissionSadismMasochismEven me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”. And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it. Just like how I teach about sex. i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep. The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. It’s the same in BDSM. The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. In today’s episode: Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSMHow BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

15 Apr 202211min

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.And so are the bad ones.It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.F*ck them until you change them.If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?If not, you are doing it wrong.My work is all about showing you how to do it right.Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change.   How to have the kind of sex that changes your life.   The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage Clarity and communication techniques How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for menHow to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. And much more! To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

10 Apr 20221h 2min

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. In today’s episode: Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage Our epic flower mandala yoni All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices. Click here to sign up now.

8 Apr 202232min