We Opened Up A Christian Hotline for Dating Advice

What if moral failure isn’t just a personal weakness… but something we’ve helped create?We’ve seen it too many times: another Christian leader falls. Another headline. Another apology video. But what if the root problem isn’t just lust or lack of accountability… what if it’s the culture we’ve built?In this episode, we sit down with Kris Vallotton — a leader who’s walked with pastors, pioneers, and fallen giants behind the scenes — to ask the hard questions: • How do you actually prevent moral failure, not just respond to it? • What are the warning signs no one talks about until it’s too late? • What kind of church culture actually fosters purity and integrity? • And when someone does fall… what does real restoration look like?Whether you’re a young leader, a disillusioned churchgoer, or someone who’s been burned by moral failure up close, this conversation is raw, honest, and necessary.This isn’t about blame. It’s about building a church culture where integrity can thrive before things fall apart.🎧Let’s talk about it.👇🏼============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =============================(0:00) Intro to Episode(1:00) Intro to Kris(1:56) A discussion on moral failure(3:59) Convictions(4:00) Jack Hayford’s Example(8:35) External Boundaries and your Inner World(10:55) What’s really wrong?(13:23) The Crowd Crucifies(17:25) Relative Righteousness(18:34) No Place for Repentance?(19:25) The Process is Important(20:34) Creating the right atmosphere(22:50) Jesus heals the victim and the victimizer(23:21) Subscribe(24:07) The Slow Fade & Warning Signs(26:21) Never Trust Yourself By Yourself(27:51) Confession and Connection(33:10) Destructive Decisions(33:50) The Cost of Shame Culture(37:11) When People Mess Up, Lean In(38:56) Kris’s Heart for Restoration(40:51) Forgiveness Is Required, but Trust Isn’t(42:30) Nothing Happens Before Repentance(46:20) Restoring the Person(48:00) The Righteous Revolution(52:00) Change in the Church(54:02) Share it=============================Connect with us:=============================➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.comMiss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UU5efQ0LIqs

1 Juli 54min

Is there really one person out there you’re destined to marry? Or is that just something we’ve been told by movies, culture, and even church?In this episode, we take a clear, honest look at the idea of “the one” and where it actually comes from. Spoiler: it’s not the Bible.Questions we’re breaking down in this episode: Can you “miss” your person forever by making one wrong choice? If you married the wrong person, is your whole life off course now?Where did the idea of “the one” even come from?Do arranged marriages disprove the idea of “soulmates”?Why do so many people marry “the one”… and still get divorced?Is “God told me you’re the one” just Christian manipulation?Does God choose our spouse, or do we? And what’s our role in that decision?How do you decide if someone is “the one” for you?You’ll also hear Daniel’s personal story about how waiting for “the one” made this dating life difficult, examples from arranged marriages, and practical ways to shift from chasing perfection to building real connection.If you’ve ever wrestled with questions like “Did I miss it?” or “What if I marry the wrong person?”, this conversation brings clarity, biblical perspective, and hope.God gave you a mind, a community, and the ability to choose. Let’s talk about how to use them.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Trailer(1:50) - Intro(2:33) - The ONE(2:44) - Does God have just one person for everyone?(3:03) - Your Calling might mean less options?(4:27) - Believers should marry believers(5:03) - There are WRONG options(7:04) - Can you MISS your person?(8:00) - Could it be a poverty mindset?(9:10) - What happens if you marry the wrong one?(9:29) - The right one is the one YOU choose(11:46) - Compatibility(12:35) - Outliers & Exceptions(14:30) - Where did this concept even come from??(16:34) - “God told me…”(16:38) - Why is the Bible silent?!!(19:18) - You are a powerful person!(20:03) - Subscribe(20:48) - What about arranged marriages?(22:38) - Soulmates(23:31) - The One and divorce? Selfishness(24:32) - Manipulation(26:06) - Daniel’s Story(28:17) - There is NO prescription(28:58) - HOW do you make the decision?(31:40) - TikTok: Steve Harvey(33:45) - What motivates your choice?(37:31) - Becoming the One(39:54) - “Your person”(43:01) - Compatibility over Perfection(47:40) - Leave a comment=============================Miss the last episode? Catch it here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6hM1x2Rj1w5EjwibZnYnlU?si=39c3e1556b324ac3=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

17 Juni 47min

Sex isn’t just physical… and deep down, you know that. Let’s talk about soul ties, and how to break them for good.WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529sEver felt stuck after a breakup? Like something deeper is still holding on?That might be a soul tie.In this raw and real convo, we unpack what soul ties actually are, how they form (hint: it’s not just sex), and why they can leave you feeling spiritually weighed down.We break down the Bible’s view on soul ties, how the enemy uses them to twist intimacy, and how Jesus brings full freedom and healing.Elles shares her own story of getting tangled in an unhealthy soul tie, and how God broke the cycle.If you're feeling tied to your past, this episode is your sign: God’s ready to set you free.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:51) - Soul ties(3:51) - What even is a soul tie?(4:13) - Souls knitting together(5:23) - The context of marriage(5:33) - Sex means easy access(6:14) - God designs/Satan distorts(6:55) - The power of unity(8:38) - Terminology: Are soul ties biblical?!(13:24) - Unhealthy soul ties are no match for the power of God(14:24) - How do you know if you have a soul tie?(15:48) - TikTok: 5 Signs You Have A Soul Tie(17:31) - Soul Ties & Subtlety(18:03) - Elles’s Unhealthy Soul Tie(20:13) - Why soul ties form(22:40) - Watch What You SAY(23:33) - The Devil Is A Legalist(24:43) - Break Ups(25:53) - God is READY to heal you!(26:22) - Step into the LIGHT(27:33) - Cleansing(29:26) - Jesus purifies us!(30:21) - How do I build healthy soul ties??(31:43) - Prayer to break soul ties=============================Connect with us:=============================➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev➡︎Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com=============================Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529s

3 Juni 33min

Ten episodes. A whole lot of healing.In this final episode of Work Club, we’re looking back on the wild, beautiful journey of unpacking our pain, facing fears, and letting God reshape how we do relationships. From shame to identity, family wounds to freedom—we didn’t hold back.Here’s what stuck with us. What surprised us. What changed us.God didn’t just show up—He flipped the script.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:38) - Biggest Breakthroughs from WorkClub(1:49) - Sam: Fear of Success (3:40) - Erin: Getting Rid of Fear (6:00) - Cliff Jumping(7:38) - Daniel Opens Up(11:00) - Sam’s Fear Encounter(13:20)  - Elles & Hard Convos(15:35) - Daniel & Changing the Narrative(21:20) - Ingram & Graduating from Shame(25:40) - God Sees Us as His Children(28:00) - Final Thoughts(28:10) - Compassion & Connection & CS Lewis(30:19) - Hindsight Brings Clarity=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

13 Maj 31min

Joy isn’t just a vibe—it’s a weapon.But let’s be honest: shame, comparison, and pressure steal it way too easily.In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling out the real joy-killers and sharing how we’re learning to fight for joy in a world that pushes quick fixes over deep fulfillment. From “puffy peace” to surrendering our own standards, this convo is raw, honest, and all about choosing the kind of joy that lasts.Because the joy of the Lord isn’t a cliché—it’s how we survive.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:07) - Finding Joy and Emotional Balance(1:35) - When was the last time you truly felt joyFULL?(1:41) - Erin the Stylist(2:48) - Ingram: Eye Contact(3:14) - Sam: Starting A Business(4:50) - A DEEP Sense of Fulfillment(5:24) - Building(6:09) - Puffy Peace(9:00) - Good Stewardship Brings Joy(10:02) - Don’t Waste Time Chasing Happiness(10:36) - Happiness is Consumed, but Joy is Created(11:50) - Joy Requires Effort(14:12) - We ALWAYS have Access to Joy(15:20) - Grow Your Capacity(16:40) - Elles: The Joy of the Lord IS our Strength(18:42) - What has zapped your joy?(19:00) - Shame(19:40) - Judgement and Criticism(20:35) - Other People (21:48) - Comparison(22:03) - Over-Analyzing(22:37) - How do you get back to joy?(23:00) - Surrendering my standards for the Lord’s(25:00) - Taking the pressure off!(26:00) - MR Team: Laughing at Ingram(27:01) - All the little things (27:58) - GRATITUDE(29:45) - Slip ’n Slide=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

6 Maj 31min

If your worth isn’t your talent, your title, or your output… then what is it?This week on Work Club, we’re stripping it all back—the stuff that’s replaced Jesus in our lives, the ways we tie our identity to our performance, and the pressure we put on ourselves to be enough.We’re talking about what’s left when you lose everything you leaned on.About why real self-worth isn’t earned.And about how God calls us valuable—not because of what we do, but because of who He is.This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a lifelong journey.But it’s where real freedom starts. It’s not easy. But it’s real. And it’s time.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:16) - The Grapple: Self Worth(1:35) - Ingram: Knowing v. Experiencing(2:52) - What took the place of Jesus?(4:10) - This is a Lifelong Journey(4:46) - Identity is Relational(7:10)  - Stripped: What’s left when EVERYTHING is gone?(9:48) - How Do We Not Tie Our Performance and Self Worth Together?(11:15) - Hold on LOOSE(13:13) - Sam: Living in the Nuance(17:34) - Im Good Enough & I’m Not(19:03) - Ingram: Holy Spirit KNOWS What We Need(20:23) - Stewardship: Me Compared to My Potential(21:38) - Elles: Comparison to Conviction(23:42) - Humility Requires Ownership(24:12) - You Are Valuable and You Add Value(25:38) - Worth Can’t Be Measured in Isolation(26:15) - Romans 12: The Body(27:27) - We are NOT the SOURCE(28:43) - Self Worth & Contribution=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

29 Apr 30min

We all cope—but not all coping brings healing.In this episode of Work Club, we’re getting brutally honest about the stuff we run to when life hits hard. Because let’s be real: you can’t walk in freedom if you’re avoiding the very thing that needs healing.So we’re going there—into the blackhole.The numb-out habits. The distractions. The survival strategies that feel good in the moment... but keep us stuck.We’re talking about what it looks like to actually face pain—with Jesus, with Scripture, and with people who won’t let you hide.Inside this episode: What Ephesians 4 says about getting truly free How to tell if your coping is healing or hurting you And why breakthrough sometimes starts with two questions: How am I feeling? What do I need?This isn’t just about mental health. It’s about spiritual maturity. It’s about identity. It’s about letting God into the mess—not just after you’ve cleaned it up.This is Episode 7 of Work Club.And yeah, we’re still in process—but we’re done pretending we’re not.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00 Intro(1:30) What causes YOU to COPE?(3:30) Daniel’s Counselor story(5:25) Erin & the blackhole(6:41) Coping: healthy & unhealthy(8:22) Face the Pain(10:35) Sooooo many triggers(12:00) Ephesians 4: KEYS (13:43) Death is the doorway to life(16:05) THIS won’t kill me: If you’re going through hell, keep going!(17:50) How am I feeling? What do I need? (How do I cope?)(21:22) The FORK in the ROAD(22:30) What are some ways that people cope?(28:00) Healthy Coping Mechanisms=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

22 Apr 35min

What if the thing you’re avoiding is the key to the connection you’re craving?We all want real connection—but you can’t have intimacy if you’re avoiding conflict.In Episode 6 of Work Club, we’re talking conflict avoidance, peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, and the real cost of staying silent.From fights to forgiveness, we’re sharing the hard convos that brought healing—and why the connection you want might be on the other side of the one you’re avoiding.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00)-  Intro(2:06) - Sam’s Revelation: Fear of Success(7:55) - Why do we tend to avoid conflict?(8:15) - Conflict Avoidance(10:54) - Avoiding Conflict is Avoiding Intimacy(11:40) - Peacemakers vs Peacekeepers(14:27) - What’s the hardest conversation you’ve ever had?(15:07) - Erin’s Convo (Commitment to connection)(17:35) - Ingram’s convo(18:45) - You can only control yourself(20:00) - Recovering after the convo(21:54) - Daniel’s hard conversations(24:38) - Every good thing you want is on the other side of a hard conversation(26:12) - Elles, Avoidance, & Grenades (consequences of avoidance)(28:00) - Relationship & Stewardship(28:25) - You won’t regret having hard convos(29:48) - Are you currently avoiding convos rn?(32:37) - Daniel & Elles’s Fight(37:40) - Early and Often=============================Miss the first episode of the Work Club? Catch episode 1 here.=============================Connect with us:➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com

15 Apr 38min