How to become emotionally strong and have healthy boundaries

How to become emotionally strong and have healthy boundaries

"It is life-changing, the results are very very compelling"

The words of Dr. David Lake, a medical practitioner, supervisor of therapists, and psychotherapist who has been in private practice since 1977.

He shares his views on energy psychology, tapping, creating boundaries, and when face to face therapy is necessary and the benefits of it.

He shares: I used to think that myself (that I would have to live with my fears for the rest of my life) as it was my evidence from the real world and it was also true in the psychological and medical profession in the usual sense. And it's been true for many many years. But, approximately 20 years ago things started to change; a whole new paradigm emerged. In this paradigm, the so-called energy psychology, it turns out that even though when you don't know exactly how it works, you can actually help three kinds of serious human emotion to minimise and even disappear.

One is most kinds of anxiety. Two is most kinds of fear. Three is most kinds of deep hurt, related especially to trauma. I don't mean right away, or in one go, or in 10 minutes, but over time the most astounding things can happen to those feelings that have been typically out of reach for other treatments.

Other treatments, which I call outdated, typically are cognitive treatments working in the mind and most people think that's where the problem lies, but I no longer believe that. I think the problem is not in your mind, I think the problem is in your feelings which is somewhere coded or logged or anchored in your body.

It is a brand-new day when you can actually reduce anxiety fear and hurt. Your body is processing these feelings away from where they are stored. And once they are gone they are gone

When I found out I could release the fear I could actually not believe it.

This is the reason I actually entered the profession (psychotherapy), to be able to get these kind of results, and for many years I never could, I was amazed. And now that you can get these kind of results I'm equally amazed the most of the profession doesn't want to know about it!

Needless to say, this is an absolute killer interview that is must listen, and also a must-share. Get ready to have your perspective shifted forever!

David's show notes page

My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Contact me directly:
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You're not alone.
I've been there. It sucks. Big time.
But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:
1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course.

3.) Let's connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
• FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
• IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
• Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards,
Seb

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In this episode... Join Seb as he reveals the 7 EASIEST locations to meet new friends for those who are suffering from Social Anxiety. Looking for friends while suffering from social anxiety can be daunting, but Seb's tried and tested places will simplify the process. From silent retreats like yoga and meditation to group activities like dance and hiking, Seb shares the environments where connection feels natural and less pressured. Having battled Social Anxiety Disorder himself, Seb incorporates his rich personal experience, explaining how these locations not only ease connection but also play a significant role in overcoming Social Anxiety. With over 14 years of expertise as a Social Confidence Coach, he further talked about the importance of not just location but also the power of EFT tapping in overcoming your Social Anxiety. Stay until the end to discover Seb's ultimate strategy for overcoming social anxiety while forging meaningful friendships. Want to completely overcome your social anxiety? Start with our FREE Mini-Course "The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence". ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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In this episode... Sebastiaan will be discussing 3 Key Psychological Factors that determine how likable someone is. Sebastiaan also talked about the importance of liking oneself and how this self-acceptance can positively impact likability. Finally, he will also be discussing the power of intention: How changing one's intention from seeking approval to connecting with and accepting others can lead to increased likeability. Do you like to learn more about EFT and how it can help you significantly reduce your Social Anxiety? Start with our FREE Mini-Course "The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence" here. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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"It feels good to know that I'm not alone" [Testimonial]

In this episode... We discussed Joanne's comment from the 7 Day Social Confidence Challenge. She shared a short but deep insight on the common nature of social anxiety. We talked about how relatable experiences can shed light on the usually lonely road to social comfort. Start your journey to social confidence by getting our FREE Mini course: "The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence" https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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In this episode... Sebastiaan will be answering a comment from his previous video about people who suffer from shaky hands. The comments goes like this: "I think for me, it was when after being scolded for almost an hour my mom would say, wait till your dad comes home. 😅 That wait was very uncomfortable... Because chances are, he will give me the belt. But I had siblings with a similar childhood... I'm not sure why I'm the only one with anxiety. 👀" To learn more about using EFT to overcome Social Anxiety, get our FREE Mini course: "The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence" https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

29 Juli 20239min

EFT Tapping: A Conversation between the Conscious and Unconscious Mind [Testimonial]

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In this episode... We explore a transformative insight from Afua, who, after a tapping session, has discovered the vital role of EFT Tapping in mediating the dialogue between our conscious and subconscious minds. Tune in to gain a new perspective as we shed light on subconscious resistance – a concept that could be a game-changer for anyone seeking social ease. To unravel the tools that can help overcome your subconscious resistance and lead you to a more socially confident you, get our FREE Mini course: "The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence" https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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In this episode... Imagine soothing your anxiety in just 10 minutes and learning about a technique to actually overcome your anxiety completely. In this episode, Sebastiaan will be diving into Nicholas' comment: "I just had to do a presentation in front of my work division for about 100 people and I was in front of everyone shaking in my legs, my voice, and my hands, trying to power through and it really sucks, because I have to see these people on a daily basis." ...and will be offering 7 key insights to help you manage and overcome your fear of public speaking. Want to overcome your Social Anxiety? Get our FREE Mini-course: Get our FREE '7 Secrets To Social Confidence' Mini Course here. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

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