New Heights in Love: What Taylor Swift Can Teach Us About Joy and Redemption in Relationships

Conflict is an important part of a relationship, it's how we learn. But when we turn towards one another and attune, we learn how we can truly grow together. Christa is joined by Gottman level 2 coach Melissa Thomson, Enneagram 2 who is also E + M Certified to cover this important topic of couples learning to open their hearts to one another in ways that will truly help them to both self-attune as well heal on the deepest of levels emotionally, spiritually, physically, and bodily as we go through each of the Enneagram types together. Melissa's email is right here > here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

18 Apr 202256min

Every person within an affair has a story and when a couple decides to heal together, those stories must be told, often again and again so the couple can find healing rhythms together in the aftermath. Join Christa with one of the world's leading marriage experts and professors from Northwestern's Family Institute, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, PhD, Enneagram 3w2, as she discusses the very best and researched-backed ways to heal together. Find Dr. Solomon's website and her course on rebuilding trust here! Join her excellent tips with 200K followers on IG here. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered! If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

13 Apr 202252min

What do you do when you get to the end of yourself and you realize your deeper personal and emotional vices are hurting you, your marriage, and your closest relationships? Christa is joined by author Tyler Zach, Enneagram 3 (3-6 Glow with his wife Lindsey) who is a co-pastor of a multi-ethnic church and heads up the Gospel for Enneagram Instagram account to talk about this through the lens of faith and community. Take a peek with us inside of the hopeful narratives of many heroes of the faith who also struggled with the very same things as we do! Show notes: Tyler is currently writing 40-day devotionals for EVERY Enneagram type. He’s written books for Type 3, 4, 6, and 9. Type 1 is coming out this June 2022. Just go to his web site to get them: www.gospelforenenagram.com.  Tyler started an Instagram account (@GospelForEnneagram) which has grown to over 20,000 followers. You can get lots of free Enneagram faith-related content there. He’s also on Facebook (www.facebook.com/gospelforenneagram) and Twitter (https://twitter.com/gospelforgram).  Because some Christians are skeptical of using the Enneagram, Tyler’s written an e-book called “Should Christians Use The Enneagram?” which you can download for free on his web site www.gospelforenneagram.com. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered!   If you want your question shared on the E + M Podcast, send an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use the "Voice Memos" app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

10 Apr 20221h

A lot of our sexual issues stem from issues we just aren't talking about, some of them from within the well-intentioned church of the last few decades. Your married sex can be healed, however, and today's podcast with Christa and Sheila Wray Gregoire offers you beautiful reminders of redeeming romance in the bedroom. can work through! This is an episode that can change your sex life forever! Sheila's blog and store is here! Sheila's website is: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/   Jay Stringer's Sexual Attachment Course is here! Type “ENNEAGRAMANDMARRIAGE” for $25 off the registration price! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

4 Apr 202254min

Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Nine in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Nine, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Nine in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Nine (and all the types!) >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

30 Mars 202248min

Christa is joined by Lisa Carter of Stonegate Fellowship as they discuss the fascinating forgiveness research surrounding the Enneagram and marriage. Learn through you and your spouse's type's lenses so you can find ways back to true and unfiltered and forgiving connection with your spouse! Find Lisa's ministry outreach team at Stonegate Fellowship here: https://stonegatefellowship.com/ Find Lisa's Marriage Unfiltered podcast >> here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

28 Mars 202252min

Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Eight in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Eight, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Eight in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!   Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Eight (and all the types!) >> here  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

23 Mars 202241min

There are three distinctive ways of being that are hard-wired into our nervous systems and they are associated with the three centers in the Enneagram, body, heart, and mind. Today Leslie Hershberger, Enneagram expert of 25+ years, and married to her husband Dave for 40 years, shares with us here and on YouTube about the ways we process conflict in marriage. Don't miss Leslie's very deep dive into the centers with us as she unpacks the ways we defend our positions as well as the ways we can continue to find a richer path to healing together.   Watch on YouTube:   https://youtu.be/g9QQ1JDz44U Find Leslie's website here! https://lesliehershberger.com/   https://lesliehershberger.com/courses/foundations-of-the-enneagram/ World Vision Ukrainian Fund   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage   Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!   Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record).   Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

21 Mars 20221h 17min