My Boyfriend Doesn’t Believe in Marriage

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode How do my husband and I stop trying to “keep score”? My husband has a son from previous relationship. We have no contact with him. How/when do we tell our two little boys about him? My mom is very psychologically abusive to my dad. I am caught in the middle. How do I navigate this situation? Email: If something happens to me, I want to make sure my kids go to the right people. There are family members I would want to take them and other members that I definitely wouldn't want to take them. Should I have these conversations now? Lyrics of the Day: "Since I Put Your Picture in a Frame" - Tom Waits tag: marriage, anger/resentment/bitterness, communication, parenting, family, abuse, suicide/self-harm These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Feb 202147min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode NYT Article: Surge of Student Suicides Pushes Las Vegas Schools to Reopen I had my DNA tested and found out my dad is not my dad. How do I deal with all of this? How can I best help my 11-year-old daughter that has been diagnosed with ADD? I am a nurse at a big hospital, and we have been overwhelmed with COVID. My tank is empty, and I don’t know how to refill it in this climate.  Lyrics of the Day: "Healing Tide" - The War & Treaty tag: family, infidelity, anger/resentment/bitterness,, trauma/PTSD, reconciliation/forgiveness, ADHD, parenting, fitness/physical health, sleep, workplace/career These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Feb 202154min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode I think my husband is an alcoholic. He doesn’t see an issue. Teaching Segment: Gaslighting My new wife was a virgin when we married at 49. It’s become such a part of her identity that she can’t let it go and we haven't had sex after 3 weeks of marriage. Lyrics of the Day: "I Was Wrong" - Social Distortion tag: addiction, marriage, substance abuse, sexuality/intimacy These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Feb 202149min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode I Found out best friend was soliciting pics from minors.I went to cops but nothing has been done. How do I navigate this relationship with him? My husband has hidden his porn addiction from me for over 6 years. How do we move on from here? How can I let my new partner know that I feel suffocated in our relationship? John's Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3gBUHh2HvBaLUsl54bjbJf?si=ysdemlstTy2C8TOmd6TSsA Lyrics of the Day: "Fast As I Can" - Erin McKeown tag: sexuality/intimacy, friendship, abuse, marriage, disagreement/conflict, boundaries These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Feb 202145min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode How do I navigate a difficult relationship with my ex-husband? I just learned my new wife is taking medication that I didn’t know about. She has a history of drug abuse. How do I handle this and set boundaries? Teaching Segment: The Importance of reading fiction My son died 3 years ago from drug overdose and I am struggling with the grief process. Lyrics of the Day: "It's Not Easy Bein' Green" - Kermit the Frog tag: abuse, parenting, divorce, boundaries, addiction, anxiety, marriage, grief, addiction, family These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Feb 202152min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 5:21: My wife passed away and had a family history of behavioral issues. How do I talk to my grown kids about it without diminishing her memory? 14:23: How do I stop viewing my body as bad after two miscarriage and infertility struggles? 30:37: Should I give my sis a kidney (if I am a match)? We don’t have a great relationship and I am just starting my own family.  40:52: Teaching Segment: Hard Conversations - Making a Will 43:17: Lyrics of the Day: "All Night Long" - Lionel Richie tag: family, marriage, parenting anger/resentment/bitterness, trauma/PTSD, guilt/shame, reconciliation/forgiveness, family, fitness/physical health, sickness/illness These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29 Jan 202145min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 6:22: My mom died at 41 and I have anxiety as I get closer to 41. 21:01: My wife was seeing another man. We have tried to work on our marriage but she doesn’t seem like she is interested. How do I change her mind? 37:36: I recently recovered from COVID. How do I get over the mental part? 52:37: Lyrics of the Day: [redacted to protect John's dignity] tags: sickness/illness, fear, anxiety, family, infidelity, marriage, parenting, fitness/physical health These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Jan 202154min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 1:47: How do I wean off anxiety medication? 23:45: How do I even get my head in the right place to start planning my will? 29:53: Wife called in a while back. How do I help her through her periods of depression? 40:41: What’s the difference between gossiping and keeping up with others when it comes to families? 45:40: Lyrics of the Day: "Take It All Back 2.0" - Judah & The Lion tag: anxiety, family, relationships, sleep, fitness/physical health, goals/life planning, money, depression, anxiety, marriage, These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Jan 202147min