Sexplained: Why Some People Want to Get HIV: The Psychology of Bug Chasing
Send us a text What could possibly drive someone to eroticize contracting HIV? This question landed in my DMs and sparked one of our most challenging explorations yet into the hidden corners of human sexuality. Bug chasing—the fetishization of becoming HIV positive—exists at the complicated intersection of risk, power, identity, and desire. Though rare and certainly not mainstream, this phenomenon has been documented among small communities where the psychological thrill centers around inten...
24 Juli 5min
Quickie: Is Sexting Helping You—or Hurting You?
Send us a text Ever wondered if that cheeky text you're about to send will strengthen your connection or backfire spectacularly? Our latest dive into the pixelated world of sexting reveals something fascinating: it's not what you send that matters most—it's why you're sending it. Fresh research using self-determination theory shows that sexting can lead to dramatically different outcomes depending on your motivation. When you sext because you genuinely want to (autonomous motivation), it can...
22 Juli 10min
Episode 53: Kink Isn’t What You Think: Naya Arian on Psychology, Presence & Permission to Feel
Send us a text Forget everything you thought you knew about kink and BDSM. Professional mistress Naya Aryan pulls back the leather curtain to reveal a world where power exchange becomes a profound tool for healing, connection, and even therapy. "People come to see me to explore their innermost desires that they might not in their day-to-day lives," Naya explains, quickly dismantling stereotypes as she reveals how sessions often transform into therapeutic experiences. Her clients span all wal...
20 Juli 1h 12min
Sexplained: Why Do I Fantasise About My Wholesome Wife Being a Total Slut?
Send us a text Ever wondered why you fantasise about your loving partner in ways that make you feel guilty? You're not alone, and you're not broken. This eye-opening episode explores a listener's confession about desiring to see his wholesome, loving wife as sexually uninhibited—a psychological phenomenon more common than most realise. We break down the Madonna-whore complex, explaining how our culture artificially separates women into categories of either purity or sexuality, creating unnec...
17 Juli 8min
Quickie: Does Porn Help or Hurt Your Sex Life?
Send us a text Does watching porn help or hurt your sex life? It's a question that's plagued bedrooms, relationships, and internet browsers for decades. According to groundbreaking research involving 100,000 participants, the answer shifts dramatically depending on your gender. Drawing from a landmark 2023 study published in Psychological Medicine, we take you on a fascinating journey through the surprising science of pornography's effects on sexual performance. For men, the findings are sob...
15 Juli 10min
Episode 52: Kink vs Swingers: Why Are We So Divided?
Send us a text Ever wondered why two communities that share so much common ground often eye each other with suspicion? This episode dives deep into the fascinating divide between the kink and swinging worlds, revealing surprising truths about how we organize our pleasure. Joined by the brilliant Mischief and Mayhem from the Ministry of Mystery podcast, we unpack the unwritten rules, cultural differences, and tribal politics that keep these communities sometimes at arm's length despite their ...
13 Juli 1h 16min
Sexplained: Sex Addiction: Myth vs. Medicine – What You Need to Know
Send us a text Sex addiction has become a cultural catchphrase, frequently appearing in celebrity gossip, TV dramas, and casual conversation. But beneath this popular label lies a surprising truth: most major medical authorities don't recognize it as a legitimate diagnosis. This eye-opening episode of Sexplained tackles the complex reality behind this misunderstood concept. We explore how the DSM-5—psychiatry's definitive guide—doesn't include sex addiction at all, while the World Health Org...
10 Juli 6min
Quickie: OnlyFans Isn’t What You Think: Real Talk with Amber Riivers
Send us a text Ever wondered what really happens behind an OnlyFans paywall? Meet Amber Rivers - not just an adult content creator, but a wife, mother, and entrepreneur who's pulling back the curtain on one of the internet's most misunderstood platforms. What begins as a candid conversation about her unexpected entry into OnlyFans quickly evolves into a fascinating exploration of modern sexuality, digital relationships, and self-discovery. Amber reveals how her husband actually encouraged he...
8 Juli 24min
