49. Practicing Mindful Masturbation

What is female ejaculation, aka squirting? And why is it considered so hot yet so controversial?  Sara and Jye are joined in the studio by sex educator Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers for literally, the juiciest episode on record yet. So don't forget your umbrella!  We dive headfirst into the mystery and fantasy surrounding squirting, as well as debate the science behind what female ejaculate consists of.  Christina and Sara share their top tips for people who want to explore squirting, and explain why its desirable sometimes to get wet, wild and messy. Laundry bills not included. --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram Detailed show notes for this episode Produced by Jye Smith (@doublestarco, jye@doublestar.co)

15 Jan 20181h 2min

Parents cringe. Teachers blush. Shame ensues. But why is talking about sex so taboo in Asian culture?   Bubbly Hong Kong media personality Alyson Hau (侯嘉明) joins Sara and Jye to discuss what lies behind this cultural taboo, and how Asian attitudes differ from Western views on sex.  Discover why Hong Kong has so little sex, and the intriguing Cantonese vocabulary for genitals – birds, flutes, abalone anyone?  --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram Show notes for this episode here Produced by Jye Smith (@doublestarco, jye@doublestar.co)

18 Dec 201758min

There's yet another gender gap to think about, and this one takes place not in the boardroom, but in the bedroom.   Men have twice the number of orgasms that women do, and in heterosexual couples, women are four times more likely than men to report that sex in the past year was unpleasant.    Sara and Jye talk to Janet Lieberman, founder of feminist sex toy company Dame Products, about why women are being shortchanged on sexual pleasure and what can be done to address this gap. (Hint: it's the clit!)     ---   Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

6 Dec 201746min

Tease? Please? But just don't leave.... before listening to this sizzler of an episode! Sara and Jye are captivated by guest Ea Holm's fascinating journey from hippie flower child to international stripper to aerial arts instructor; and what it has taught her about the power of tease.  We talk about how tease is a playful form of seduction that can take many forms, from a lingering caress to cheeky banter. But overall, the true masters of tease are able to arouse and stimulate the body's biggest sex organ - the brain!  --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide.  Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

20 Nov 20171h 3min

Open relationships may not be for everyone, but neither is monogamy.  What types of open relationships exist? And is an open relationship right for you? Sara and Jye crack open this challenging topic with the help of professional relationship and dating coach Valentina Tudose, founder of Happy Ever After. After lifting the veil on the big, "scary" world of non-monogamy, Valentina shares her personal story and what she's learned firsthand about making an open relationship work.  --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide.  Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

8 Nov 20171h 6min

Want to get fluent in the language of cunnilingus? Then ditch licking those ABCs and get your earphones on. Jye leads the show this week with the help of fellow cunning linguist Roland, and together they discuss the "innies" and "outies" of delivering the kind of oral pleasure that women want and love. They even manage to teach Sara an interesting thing about the female sexual anatomy...  From warming up women who may initially feel shy about oral, to what to do when tongues get tired, Jye and Roland tackle some tasty questions on this show that will bring a smile to your lips and leave a good taste in your mouth.  ---- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide.  Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

16 Okt 201746min

Does the start of kids = the end of your sex life? Sara and Jye invite Zosha Piotrowski, fitness instructor and mum of two kids aged nine and seven, on the show to find out the truth!  Zosh shares her survival strategies and sexy date night inspiration to re-ignite the sexual spark after kids - behind very firmly locked doors.  A must-listen for people with kids, people planning kids, and even people with a phobia of kids, like Sara!  --- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

9 Okt 201747min

Is getting to know the penis as straightforward as it seems? Sara and Jye are joined this week by Christina Antonyan, founder of Confident Lovers to discuss - at length - the male sex organ.    Sara and Christina share their top tips for penis pleasure, and talk about what men like most and least about having their penises stimulated.   We tackle whether size really matters, circumcised vs uncircumcised penises, and why a blowjob or a hand job really shouldn't be "a job".   ---- Want to get even Better in Bed? Download the audio guide. Follow us on Instagram. Detailed show notes for this episode here. Produced by Jye Smith (jye@doublestar.co)

3 Okt 201755min