Narcissism At Work7 Juli 2025

The Narcissistic Colleague

We’ve all heard of toxic bosses, but what about colleagues who exhibit narcissistic traits? In this episode of Narcissism At Work, Leyya and clinical psychologist Dr. Daksha Hirani explore the less talked-about, but just as damaging, impact of narcissism among our peers. From backstabbing and silent smear campaigns to credit-stealing and emotional manipulation, this episode dives deep into the warning signs and psychological fallout of working with a narcissistic colleague.

What we cover:

How narcissistic colleagues manipulate to compete, control, and undermine
Red flags that you might be working with someone who’s not as supportive as they seem
Smear campaigns, love bombing, and subtle sabotage tactics
What healthy competition looks like, and where the line gets crossed
The toll this takes on team trust, collaboration and creativity
Mental health impacts, including trauma symptoms, grief, and isolation
Tools like the DEEP method to protect yourself

Why it matters:

Toxic colleagues can slowly chip away at your confidence, relationships and reputation. This episode offers language, clarity, and strategies for reclaiming your power.

Plus:

Real-life scenarios of narcissistic dynamics at work
Practical tips to spot the red flags and protect yourself
A reminder that you’re not imagining it and you’re not alone

Resources mentioned:

World Health Organisation (www.who.int/)
‘The Body Keeps The Score’ by Bessel van der Kolk

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