How Do You Rebuild Your Life After It Falls Apart and Return to Joy. with Chanoa Inez

In this tender episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty is joined by author and poet Cyndee Dhalai, also known by her pen name Fay Allian, for a heartfelt conversation on navigating the heavy, often silent path of grief. Through her lived experiences and profound words, Cyndee shares how healing begins not by moving on, but by moving forward—with memory, meaning, and love. She opens up about the moment her grief turned into poetry, and how loss became the beginning of a new chapter. About the Guest:Cyndee Dhalai, writing under Fay Allian, is the author of Grief is the Price You Pay for Love and Pieces of Me. Her journey through rejection, illness, and profound personal loss has shaped her into a voice of resilience and reflection. With a poetic soul and a survivor’s spirit, Cyndee helps others honor their grief while rediscovering their purpose. Key Takeaways: Grief isn’t about “getting over” but integrating love and loss in balance. You must acknowledge, accept, and agree with your loss to truly begin healing. Writing became a lifeline for Cyndee—it was her way to speak with herself and transform pain into purpose. Grief is personal, unpredictable, and deeply complex—but it also teaches us how deeply we can love. Honoring memories through rituals or memory boxes can be a powerful healing practice. We are not broken—we are becoming. Life goes on, and so can we, with compassion and grace. Connect with Cyndee Dhalai: http://www.linkedin.com/in/cyndee-d-1a4905299 Books available on Amazon: Grief is the Price You Pay for Love by Fay Allian Pieces of Me by Cyndee Dhalai Follow her author journey and discover her work through Amazon search.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch: DM Me HereSubscribe to Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind   Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube: @healthymind-healthylifeInstagram: @podhealth.clubThreads: @podhealth.clubFacebook: Podcast HealthymindLinkedIn: Reema Chatterjee | Avik Chakraborty #podmatch #griefhealing #healthygrief #healthymindbyavik #griefjourney #wellness

24 Apr 25min

In this transformative episode of Healthy Waves, host Sana sits down with Ben O’Loghlin—entrepreneur, wellness educator, and Alexander Technique teacher—to uncover how chronic pain isn’t always physical, but often neurological. Ben shares his riveting journey of overcoming debilitating back pain not through medication or surgery, but by rewiring his brain’s pain response. With over 30 years of experience and remarkable success stories from his students, Ben breaks down the cognitive science behind pain, the role of “bad tension,” and how a simple practice of inhibition can offer lasting relief. If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of treatments that don’t work, this episode is your invitation to think differently—because real healing might just begin in your mind. About the Guest:Ben O’Loghlin is the founder of BackRepublic.com, a wellness platform offering cognitive-based solutions to chronic back pain. After suffering years of daily pain himself, Ben discovered the Alexander Technique—a neuromuscular re-education method—and now teaches others how to release harmful tension and retrain their nervous systems. Based in Australia, Ben combines science, personal experience, and mindful movement to help people live pain-free without pills, appointments, or invasive therapies. Key Takeaways: 90% of back pain is non-specific and often stems from neural tension patterns, not physical injury. The Alexander Technique retrains the brain to stop sending harmful tension signals to the body. Healing starts by “inhibiting” the instinct to fix pain—simply pausing and observing can begin to release chronic tightness. Studies show an 80%+ reduction in pain days per month through these non-invasive practices. True relief lies not in doing more, but in re-learning how to be in your body without fear or force. Connect with Ben O’Loghlin:Website: www.backrepublic.comTake the free back pain scorecard and join the course waitlist directly from his site. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch: DM Me Here Subscribe to Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned and Follow Us: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness #backpain #alexandertechnique #mindbodyhealing #chronicpainrelief

24 Apr 23min

In this eye-opening episode of Healthy Waves, we’re joined by Helen Taylor—founder of The Wellness Concierge—who dives deep into what it really means to experience a transformational health shift. With over 20 years of expertise in forensic health, functional medicine, and holistic strategy, Helen shares how her personal battle with hormone imbalance led her to uncover the power of root-cause healing. From reversing terminal diagnoses to challenging toxic food systems, this conversation bridges science and soul for lasting wellness. Whether you're battling fatigue, confusion, or chronic health issues—this episode will inspire you to stop suppressing symptoms and start understanding your body. About the Guest:Helen Taylor is the founder of The Wellness Concierge, a UK-based integrative health consultancy. With two decades of experience in forensic health science and functional medicine, Helen is passionate about personalized wellness rooted in data, nutrition, mindset, and metabolic healing. Her work helps clients reverse complex conditions and re-ignite their vitality through science-backed protocols and holistic therapies. Key Takeaways: Helen’s health journey began with unaddressed hormone issues that led to unnecessary surgery—now, she helps others avoid the same fate. She shared a powerful case study of a terminally ill woman who entered remission through a holistic, personalized approach combining gut health, detoxification, mindset, and nutrition. Biomarkers are more than numbers—they tell a living story of your body’s state and trajectory. Sugar is the silent disruptor—cutting it can create an instant shift in energy and clarity. Detox isn't pseudoscience when backed by rigorous testing and targeted liver support. Real healing is available to everyone—not just the elite—when we return to food simplicity and self-awareness. Connect with Helen Taylor: Instagram: @thewellness_concierge Website: thewellness-concierge.com Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PodMatch: DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness #holistichealth #functionalmedicine #rootcausehealing #sugarfree #healingjourney

24 Apr 23min

In this powerful episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, we’re joined by Dave Frost—Cold War veteran, elite master rower, spinal surgery survivor, and author of Kaboomer and Strong to Save. Dave unpacks how pain, far from being an enemy, can be a profound teacher. From a herniated disc to a holistic health transformation, Dave shares how he rebuilt his “physical bank account” using mindset, motion, and mindfulness. Whether you're battling chronic pain, stuck in unhealthy patterns, or just want to age with strength and grace—this episode is your wake-up call to start making daily deposits toward your healthspan, not just your lifespan. About the Guest:Dave Frost is a certified master fitness trainer, U.S. Navy veteran, and founder of Well Past 40 LLC. With over 72 laps around the sun, Dave has transformed his personal experience of chronic pain into a mission to help others thrive past midlife. Through his books, coaching, and lived example, he guides others to “die harder and later,” embracing movement, mindset, and smart longevity strategies every day. Key Takeaways: Pain is feedback, not failure—it's the brain’s way of demanding attention. Dave’s spinal surgery post-9/11 became a spiritual reboot and a health revolution. He coined the “physical bank account” metaphor: every breath, rep, and choice counts as a deposit—or a withdrawal. His 7S model (strength, stamina, stretching, stability, stress management, sleep, and sustenance) is a blueprint for vibrant aging. It’s never too late to start—whether you're 40 or 70, motion is medicine. Small actions like mindful breathing, anti-inflammatory eating, and quality sleep build resilience and energy for the long run. Connect with Dave Frost: Website: https://wellpast40.com Books: Kaboomer & Strong to Save available on Amazon and through his site Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PodMatch: DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #agingstrong #chronicpain #kaboomer #healthspan #longevity #mindovermatter #davefrost

24 Apr 43min

In this powerful episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sana sits down with Marie Birtel—journalist, lecturer, psychological counselor, and author of I Love You, When. Together, they confront the rarely discussed realities of transgenerational trauma, covert narcissism, and misogyny within families. Marie courageously shares her personal journey of emotional abuse, generational silence, and eventual liberation. This conversation explores how abuse cloaked in societal respectability often goes unnoticed, how family systems condition women to stay small, and what it takes to break free. Marie's story is a mirror for many—revealing that healing is not only possible, but a powerful act of reclamation. About the Guest:Marie Birtel is a French-German journalist, university lecturer, psychological counselor, and author. Her book I Love You, When is a self-help narrative that exposes the hidden layers of family abuse and offers hope to those navigating trauma. Through her writing and counseling work, Marie empowers others to recognize covert narcissism and reclaim their inner truth. Key Takeaways: Covert narcissism often appears under the guise of victimhood, using control and dependency to manipulate. Emotional abuse in families can manifest subtly through guilt, gaslighting, and mood-based punishment. Eating disorders, depression, and relationship struggles can be symptoms of unresolved trauma. Misogyny within families perpetuates generational cycles of silence and shame. Healing begins with awareness, courage to speak out, and often cutting ties with toxic family dynamics. Connect with Marie-Christine Rienecker: Website & Free Consultation: https://mariebirtel.com/ Book: I Love You, When – Available on Amazon in English and German Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM:DM Me Here:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avikSubscribe To Newsletter:https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/Join Community:https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylifeInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/Threads:https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.clubFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymindLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

24 Apr 33min

In this heartfelt episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty welcomes DEI strategist and bridge builder Mathias Lemos Castillo to explore the art of balancing personal life and workplace relationships in today’s fast-paced, hybrid world. From setting intentional boundaries to creating inclusive spaces for connection, Mathias shares wisdom on authenticity, emotional intelligence, and curiosity as tools for navigating complexity. Whether you're managing teams, relationships, or simply seeking clarity in chaos, this episode will help you embrace balance—not as perfection, but as presence. About the Guest:Mathias Lemos Castillo is a bilingual DEI consultant and founder of MLC Consulting. Originally from Uruguay and based in the U.S. for over two decades, Mathias is passionate about building inclusive cultures where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued. Formerly the Board Chair of the Latino Professionals Association of Greater Madison, he now helps organizations and leaders navigate cultural nuance, emotional intelligence, and real human connection at work. Key Takeaways: Balance is an ongoing process, not a fixed goal—intention is key. Authentic leadership starts with self-awareness and setting clear boundaries. Curiosity is the secret ingredient to navigating cultural differences and difficult conversations. Virtual coffees, affinity groups, and creative touchpoints build trust in hybrid teams. Vulnerability and boundaries must coexist for sustainable, healthy relationships—both professionally and personally. Connect with Mathias Lemos Castillo: Website:https://mlcconsulting.org LinkedIn:Mathias Lemos Castillo Instagram: @mlc_consulting Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch: DM Me HereSubscribe to the Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/Join the Community: https://nas.io/healthymind   Stay Tuned And Follow Us:YouTube: Healthy Mind - Healthy LifeInstagram: @podhealth.clubThreads: @podhealth.clubFacebook: Healthy Mind PodcastLinkedIn: Reema Chatterjee | Avik Chakraborty #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #mentalhealth #worklifebalance #leadership #emotionalintelligence #belonging

24 Apr 22min

In this inspiring episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, Avik sits down with Rob Finlay—Wall Street Journal bestselling author, serial entrepreneur, and mentor to many—to explore the real challenges young adults face today. From late-night “Hey Dad” phone calls to boardroom breakthroughs, Rob brings his signature mix of humor, humility, and hard-earned wisdom. Together, they unpack entrepreneurship, resilience, mindfulness, and the importance of purpose in today’s hustle-heavy world. If you’ve ever wondered how to build a life with both success and meaning, this episode is your roadmap. About the Guest:Rob Finlay is a seasoned entrepreneur who has successfully built and sold four companies. He’s also the author of Hey, Dad?, dropping April 29th—a must-read guide for young adults navigating adulthood. Beyond business, Rob is a proud father, advocate of sustainable living, and a firm believer in blending self-awareness with strategy. Key Takeaways: The modern adulting crisis is real—and so is the need for real-life guidance. Resilience isn’t just for entrepreneurs; it’s a life skill we all need. Social media can create false narratives—focus on your real journey. Daily mindfulness and small habits compound into lasting success. Leadership today demands inner alignment, not just outer achievements. Young adults must embrace curiosity, community, and continuous self-discovery. Connect with Rob Finlay:Grab his book Hey, Dad? on April 29th and follow his journey through mentorship and entrepreneurship. https://www.amazon.com/Hey-Dad-Everything-Shouldve-Learned/dp/B0DVRG9CQT Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch – Send me a message here:DM Me Here:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avikSubscribe To Newsletter:https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/Join Community:https://nas.io/healthymind   Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylifeInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/Threads:https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.clubFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymindLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #entrepreneurship #mindfulness #selfdevelopment #youngadults #wellness

22 Apr 23min

In this powerful episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty is joined by Tee Green — entrepreneur, philanthropist, retired U.S. Special Operations Major, and the mind behind Transmutive Mentorship. Tee shares how mentorship not only saved his life but shaped his mission to empower others. Raised in the inner city, Tee’s life took a pivotal turn thanks to the dedication of mentors who saw potential in him. Now, he pays it forward by helping individuals and organizations harness the true impact of mentoring. This conversation reveals why mentorship is not optional but essential, how sharing your failures can build stronger connections, and why mentors often gain more than they give.   About the Guest:Tee Green is a decorated Bronze Star recipient, international speaker, coach, and author of the upcoming book Transmutive Mentorship. With decades of experience mentoring in high-stakes environments, Tee now works with organizations to create robust mentorship cultures. His approach highlights that mentorship isn’t just about helping others — it transforms the mentor, too.   Key Takeaways: Mentorship can redirect lives and elevate goals beyond perceived limitations. Sharing failures creates deeper trust and resilience in mentees. Mentorship isn't a luxury — it’s a societal necessity. Everyone, regardless of experience, has something to offer as a mentor. Building strong mentorship cultures improves leadership and reduces attrition. Connect with Tee Green: Website: www.thementorshipcoach.comSubscribe for tips, training, and updates on his upcoming book Transmutive Mentorship (launching Spring 2025).   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch: DM Me HereSubscribe To Newsletter: Click hereJoin Our Community: Join here   Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube: Healthy Mind - Healthy LifeInstagram: @podhealth.clubThreads: @podhealth.clubFacebook: Podcast HealthymindLinkedIn: Reema Chatterjee | New & New #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #mentorship #mentalhealth #personaldevelopment #leadership #wellness

19 Apr 15min