‘I Was An Ugly Child’ & The 5-Second Underthinking Rule

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28 Apr 201717min

There are a few things that remain sacred in the Australian landscape. ANZAC day is one of them. So when commentator Yassmin Abdel-Magid suggested that Australians should instead spare a thought for those on Manus Island and in Syria, it went down like a lead balloon. But isn't this the freedom of speech that our ANZAC soldiers fought for? What’s the right amount of Maternity leave to take? Anne-Marie Slaughter, former advisor to Hillary Clinton, says 12 months of maternity leave is too long and it will damage your career. Plus, the Logies moment that divided option: we need to talk about Molly. Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright Holly recommends watching No Offence on iTunes Jessie is all about investing in a new mattress Monz recommends baking the best ANZAC biscuits known to mankind. Leave us a message on the Podcast phone: 02 8999 9386 or join the conversation on the Facebook page: Mamamia Out Loud Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 Apr 201753min

Meghan Markle is one step closer to being a Royal Princess, and she's just what the world needs right now. Should Asma al-Assad, Syria's First Lady, have her British citizenship stripped for war crimes? The new editor of women's mag British Vogue is a man and not everyone's pleased. Are you carrying an "obligatory friend" in your life, and is it time to ditch them? Please, TV, can we have a trigger warning on televising gruesome sports injuries, vibrators, and any more "dating experiment" shows because we've almost had enough. And there's a listener dilemma about teenage sleepovers, and two awesome shows to add to your 'watch' list. Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Mia Freedman and Jessie Stephens Mia recommends Mike Birbiglia on Netflix Jessie is all about Louis Theroux documentary on Autism: it's on iview and Netflix Monz recommends online florists for brightening someone's day: Melbourne and Sydney have Daily Blooms / Little Flowers Melbourne has The Little Market Bunch Adelaide has Sophies Posies Brissie: Poppy Rose or Poco Posy Perth: The Flower Run For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud The podcast phone is 02 8999 9386 To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

19 Apr 20171h 6min

After years of us waiting, crossing our fingers, and writing it on our Christmas wishlists, Botox for your butthole is finally a thing. Which has made Jackie realise that she has never actually seen her butthole...Have you? Plus, NSW Politician Pru Goward has given an interview about her relationship with estranged daughter Tziporah Malkhah, which begs the question what has to happen in a mother-daughter relationship to make you sever it entirely? And if you are a late person, good news - turns out you’re just wired differently. Show notes Mia and Monz will be back next week. Your host was Holly Wainwright with Jackie Lunn and Jessie StephensToday's show was produced by Elissa Ratliff Jackie recommends Our Souls At Night by Ken Haruf Jessie is all about saying you SHOULDN'T watch 13 Reasons Why on Netflix And Holly really really wants you to eat Easter Eggs this weekend. For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud The podcast phone is 02 8999 9386 To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

12 Apr 201753min

A listener wants to know why her best friend is now suddenly acting superior after having a baby. It's 'mother martyr' syndrome and it's everywhere. Remember Hygge? That's over. The new hot lifestyle trend is Lagom. Would you let your partner dine alone with a member of the opposite sex? Mike Pence, the Vice President of the United States, has outlined his rules for marriage, and they are fascinating. A white woman was turned away from a multicultural playgroup and it’s exactly the kind of bad press that mums groups DON’T NEED. And saying 'No' is one of the hardest things to do: we have a trick that means you can do it without feeling like a jerk. Plus, S-Town, the book you should add to your pile, and Jessie has just discovered Pinterest....17 years after it started. Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Mia Freedman and Jessie Stephens Mia recommends Ariel Levy's book Jessie is all about Pinterest Monz recommends the podcast S-Town For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud The podcast phone is 02 8999 9386 To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Apr 20171h 4min

So many questions this week. Is the price of bananas about to skyrocket? If you give birth in a Cyclone should you name the baby after the Cyclone during which you birthed? If you're a powerful woman discussing national issues do you need to shave your legs so the paper can report on them instead of your important work? Can you claim to be into clean living, and still have botox? Have you ever been summoned to the bosses office and been asked to show your boobs? When someone says "did you have a GOOD weekend" are they actually asking if you got a shag in? In a world of hustle and striving to be better, what happened to ever being "mediocre"? And we know teens want to get drunk and have sex, but what happens when things go wrong, are filmed, and then distributed all throughout the school? Have parents gone soft when it comes to cracking down? Plus, the app, TV show and podcast recommendation for your downtime. Whenever the hell that is. Phew. Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Mia Freedman and Holly Wainwright. Jessie has Glandular Fever. Poor lamb. Get well soon Jessie. Mia recommends Youtube Kids and the Our Pact app Holly is all about Wil Anderson's Comedy Special on Stan Monz recommends the podcast S-Town and stuffing your eyeballs with these MAFS recaps so you don't have to watch the whole show You can listen to Holly on This Glorious Mess Mia's No Filter with Wil Anderson is here And our newest podcast, for KIDS, is The Beanies! And it's coming soon. Subscribe here For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud Email us: outloud@mamamia.com.au To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

29 Mars 20171h 8min

Have you been called a "difficult" woman? This week Pia Miller, Home and Away actress was in Elle magazine, described as exhibiting a “zealous level of control”. Is the criticism justified? Or is a bossy woman inevitably a bitch? Also, is wolf whistling the worst, the three million dollar wedding that ended up in court, and why International Happiness Day is a crock. Plus, if you hate your body, and you aren’t convinced by the “body positivity movement” it’s time to embrace "body neutrality". And a listener in an open plan office is on the brink of insanity, what should she do? Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Mia Freedman and Jessie Stephens Mia recommends the Big Little Lies soundtrack on Spotify And Yevu clothing for anyone who needs something to wear other than Gorman Jessie recommends Art classes, or sending us a drawing for the facebook page Monz recommends getting a Keep Cup Thanks to NAB for sponsoring the AFL women's segment For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud Email us: outloud@mamamia.com.au To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Mars 201758min

Cartoonist Bill Leak died. But rather than celebrating his life, many of his critics have vocally celebrated his death. Should we always respect someone in death, even if we didn’t agree with them? The Girls episode that blew open a conversation many of us had been too afraid to have. Is there such thing as casual sexual assault? Plus - have you noticed anything about RomComs of late? There’s an argument that modern dating has changed the ‘happily ever after’ narrative for movies in Hollywood.Plus, we're on Amal Clooney Bump Watch, Monique has had enough of sexualised songs on radio, Amy Schumer's new Netflix comedy gets roasted, and the Sydney School Boys who started the biggest conversation on International Women's Day.Show notes: Show notes Your host and producer is Monique Bowley with Mia Freedman and Jessie Stephens Mia recommends How to Murder Your Life, by Cat Marnell. Published by Penguin Jessie recommends the RHOS on Foxtel, and then The Recap podcast that drops on Sunday nights straight after the show Monz recommends deleting any fitspo from your insta feed. Thanks to Rebel for sponsoring the AFL women's segment For Questions, comments, and general chitty chat: facebook.com/mamamiaoutloud Email us: outloud@mamamia.com.au To find any books mentioned in Mamamia podcasts go to apple.co/mamamia where you'll find all of our shows and books by our guests in one place. Sign up for Mia's newsletter, and Monz's newsletter here Tell a friend about the show. Actually, just take their phone off them and subscribe them yourself. Don't look at their pics, you might see something weird, just go straight to the App Store, download the Mamamia Podcast app, or push straight onto the Podcast App on their iPhone and subscribe them to this show. Much thanks. Many hugs.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 Mars 20171h 11min