“This Is Just Who I Am” | When Your Husband Refuses To Change, BPD Healing, And Lusting After Others (Problem communicating pt2)

“This Is Just Who I Am” | When Your Husband Refuses To Change, BPD Healing, And Lusting After Others (Problem communicating pt2)

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.

In this 2 Be Better Podcast episode, Chris and Peaches kick things off with updates on their upcoming December 5–8 coed couples retreat, breaking down details on bunks, private rooms, who can come solo, and why these weekends are so powerful for couples and individuals who want real relationship growth. Then they dive straight into part two of a heavy email from a wife in a long term marriage, struggling with BPD, emotional safety, and a husband who refuses to change because “this is who I was when we got married.” They walk through her written letter, line by line, unpacking abandonment triggers, preloading divorce conversations, the difference between repair and resolution, and how to phrase “I” and “we” language so you are fighting for the relationship instead of fighting each other. If you are in a mentally exhausting marriage where every argument gets turned back on you, you feel like you are doing all the emotional work, or your healing journey is not supported by your spouse, this episode will feel painfully familiar and give you a clearer framework for what healthy communication and real change should look like.

From there, they expose the darker side of a husband who openly says he will not evolve, threatens to weaponize the kids in a divorce, and treats his wife as a conversational enemy while she tries to get her BPD into remission and protect her mental health. Chris and Peaches talk hard truths about when it is time to leave, what it actually means to be “too different,” why you cannot raise your husband like a toddler, and why real partnership requires both people to grow, not just the one with a diagnosis. They also respond to a separate email about a boyfriend constantly commenting on other women’s bodies, celebrity crushes, and homemade porn in relationships, giving straight talk on lusting after others while in a relationship, self pleasure, and why “hall passes” and “it is just a movie” slowly destroy self esteem and intimacy. If you are craving blunt marriage advice, BPD relationship insight, and no nonsense coaching on emotional safety, porn, and standards in your relationship, this video will give you language, clarity, and the permission to stop settling.


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2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep. 4

2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep. 4

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2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep 3

2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep 3

The following conversation may include topics that some individuals might find distressing or triggering. These topics could include but are not limited to discussions about mental health, trauma, violence, abuse, discrimination, or other sensitive subjects. We aim to create a safe and respectful space for dialogue, but please be aware of your own emotional well-being and boundaries. If at any point you feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, please prioritize your mental health and consider stepping away from the conversation. Additionally, if you require support or assistance, please reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. By continuing with this conversation, you acknowledge your understanding of the potential triggering nature of the topics discussed and agree to engage with sensitivity and respect for others.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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2 Be Better Podcast - Navigating Co-Parenting Boundaries

2 Be Better Podcast - Navigating Co-Parenting Boundaries

This episode delves into the complex dynamics of co-parenting and blending families after divorce. A woman shares her struggles as she navigates a relationship with her boyfriend of 4 years, who co-parents his daughter with his ex-wife. Despite their strong bond, unresolved tensions arise due to the ex-wife's persistent presence and the boyfriend's reluctance to establish clear boundaries. The emailer grapples with feelings of exclusion and emotional insecurity, rooted in her own experiences of a tumultuous childhood. Through heartfelt conversations and introspection, she seeks advice on fostering understanding and compromise while prioritizing the well-being of all involved. This story is a testament to the complexities of modern relationships and the resilience required to forge a path of mutual respect and harmony.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep.2

2 Be Better Presents Voice of the Broken Ep.2

The following conversation may include topics that some individuals might find distressing or triggering. These topics could include but are not limited to discussions about mental health, trauma, violence, abuse, discrimination, or other sensitive subjects. We aim to create a safe and respectful space for dialogue, but please be aware of your own emotional well-being and boundaries. If at any point you feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, please prioritize your mental health and consider stepping away from the conversation. Additionally, if you require support or assistance, please reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. By continuing with this conversation, you acknowledge your understanding of the potential triggering nature of the topics discussed and agree to engage with sensitivity and respect for others.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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2 Be Better Presents - Voice of the Broken Ep. 1

2 Be Better Presents - Voice of the Broken Ep. 1

The following conversation may include topics that some individuals might find distressing or triggering. These topics could include but are not limited to discussions about mental health, trauma, violence, abuse, discrimination, or other sensitive subjects. We aim to create a safe and respectful space for dialogue, but please be aware of your own emotional well-being and boundaries. If at any point you feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, please prioritize your mental health and consider stepping away from the conversation. Additionally, if you require support or assistance, please reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional. By continuing with this conversation, you acknowledge your understanding of the potential triggering nature of the topics discussed and agree to engage with sensitivity and respect for othersBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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Recover your Power Pt 2

Recover your Power Pt 2

This is from Peaches Garden through our Patreon. We are going to give you a little bit of content over the next few weeks so you can see what we have been doing there. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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2 Be Better Podcast S2 Ep 24

2 Be Better Podcast S2 Ep 24

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

10 Juni 20242h 24min

Recover your Power Pt 1

Recover your Power Pt 1

This is from Peaches Garden through our Patreon. We are going to give you a little bit of content over the next few weeks so you can see what we have been doing there. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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