Smothering
Smothering happens when a person is controlled, manipulated, or abused most commonly found in victims of narcissistic abuse. Because of its subtle nature of this abuse it may be difficult to identify ...
14 Sep 20198min
Grieving After Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse is often difficult to identify but when does there will an initial shock. This shock will be followed by stages of grief that mirror a death. In reality, coming out of a narcissisti...
12 Sep 201911min
Childhood Programming
Children will learn in childhood how to see themselves and relate to themselves and others based on how they were treated and perceived by primary caregivers. This becomes a program and an operating s...
11 Sep 201912min
Alignment and Authenticity as a Form of Healing
When a person is aligned with their authentic self they are at peace. Most mental disease stems from being out of alignment. This is usually because of pressures from parents, family, and society to a...
10 Sep 201910min
Breakdown/Breakthrough
Breakdowns in life which include lost jobs, broken relationships and feeling isolated are all potential opportunities to break through into a higher level of awareness and self love. Victims of sever ...
9 Sep 201912min
Emasculated Male Narcissists
Narcissistic mothers are extremely smothering. With a weak dad, the son of these mothers will come to enmesh and rely on their mother even into adulthood. With no ability to develop a healthy ego and ...
8 Sep 201912min
The Narcissists’ Perpetual State of Denial
Narcissistic abusers live in this state of denial and project the true and shamed aspects of themselves onto victims. This is done to remove these aspects of themselves by punishing and abusing victim...
6 Sep 201910min
Intellectualization - Defense Mechanism
Intellectualization is a Defense Mechanism designed to protect the individual from facing their anxiety, shame, guilt and other painful emotions. The individual uses their intellect to rationalize and...
5 Sep 201911min
