
The Borderline Narcissist
It is not uncommon that a narcissist will also have borderline personality traits. The personality disorders of NPD and BPD exist on a continuum based on how wounded the individual is and how disconne...
23 Aug 201911min

The Narcissists’ Fantasy World
Narcissistic abusers live in a false imaginary world that is split off from reality. The dissociated state that narcissists live in is a defense against feeling inner shame and pain which their true s...
22 Aug 201910min

The Subconscious Mind - The Narcissists’ Access Point
According to most neurologists and psychologists, 90 to 98 percent of a persons conscious awareness is not actually inside of the individuals awareness but rather existing in the unconscious of the su...
20 Aug 201910min

Vulnerability After Narcissistic Abuse
Vulnerability becomes extremely difficult for abuse victims who have learned that being so will subject them to mistreatment and exploitation. Vulnerability, however, is a prerequisite for human conne...
19 Aug 201910min

Boundaries - The Narcissists’ Kryptonite
Narcissistic abusers are notorious for boundary violating and disrespecting their partners, friends, children etc. victims may not realize they are being violated and therefore make excuses, back down...
18 Aug 201910min

Shaming and Guilting - Narcissistic Abuse Tactic
Narcissistic abusers are aware that they can use shame and guilt to make victims feel badly about minor actions taken that upset them. By shaming and guilting victims, they will look within to correct...
16 Aug 201911min

Narcissistic Control
“It's impossible to love someone and control them at the same time" - Terry Crews. There is no better description of the lack of love that exists with narcissistic abusers then this quote. Narcissisti...
15 Aug 201911min

Empathy - The Narcissists‘ Achilles Heal
Empathy is a natural and later nurtured human trait that allows one to step out of one’s shoes and feel another’s pain. It’s allows for true human connection as two people are able to bond and be vuln...
15 Aug 201913min



















