175: When He Doesn’t Talk About His Urges, She Thinks He’s Just Hiding Them
Picture a relationship caught in a painful cycle: He struggles with pornography, she puts up walls to protect herself. Things get better for a while when he tries to change, but then life gets busy, o...
19 Dec 202421min
Mini Episode 3: A Proven Strategy to Rebuilding Trust After Pornography Use
Rebuilding trust after pornography use damages it can feel impossible. Many couples struggle to know where to start when their relationship feels broken. Today, I want to share a simple approach to he...
16 Dec 20243min
174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use
Have you ever felt trapped by urges that seem impossible to control? Many people struggling with pornography feel like these moments are scary and overwhelming. Most advice tells you to fight these ur...
12 Dec 202426min
Mini Episode 2: Understanding Emotions Can Shortcut the Healing Process
One of the most important steps in this process for husbands and wives is to better understand their emotions. Many people ignore or suppress them, but this actually slows down your progress. Emotion...
9 Dec 20244min
173: Improving Sexual Intimacy When There's Been Damage By Pornography Use
Sexual intimacy is one of the biggest things that is damaged when their wife discovers her husband pornography use. It can be scary for her to be intimate because of the insecurities and fears that th...
5 Dec 202437min
Mini Episode 1: If You Struggle With Repeated Setbacks, Do This
Welcome to today's first mini episode! I'm testing something new and am going to do a podcast that's less than 5 minutes long that gives you a specific tool to implement or a thought to consider. Thes...
2 Dec 20243min
172: When He Starts Making Progress, She Gets Scared He’ll Fall Back
Sometimes when a husband is making good progress personally and in the relationship, his wife has fears and doubts: “How can I know that he’s telling the truth?” “What if he’s just gotten better at hi...
28 Nov 202421min
171: One Step 100 Times vs 100 Steps – The Few Skills That Matter For Progress on Self and Marriage
In this episode, I reflect on a powerful moment from a couples counseling session where a wife expressed feeling overwhelmed by the journey ahead. I shared a mindset shift with them: it’s not about 10...
21 Nov 202422min
