138: The Top 3 Ways to Kill Your Chances of Having a Strong Marriage
"We've been spinning our wheels for 9 months... I'm in a worst place now than the day I discovered everything." A couple reached out to me a few hours before recording this episode. They were both dis...
29 Mars 202429min
137: How Long Does It Take to Repair A Marriage After Pornography Use?
This road to healing your marriage can be agonizing. So many people wonder how long will this take? They feel like they might not be able to hold on much longer. The good news is that it’s actually ...
21 Mars 202419min
136: How Long Do We Need To Keep Talking About It?
After the discovery of pornography use, it shatters the foundation of the entire relationship. Naturally, it becomes the center of most conversations as you try to resolve the issues and pain it cause...
14 Mars 202418min
135: She Found Out He Was Hiding A Slip… Now What?
Couples can very easily get stuck when a husband has a slip up, acts like things are normal, and then his wife finds out that he searched for something and didn’t tell her. This can cause a wife to sp...
7 Mars 202421min
134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't
March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them. It can be very discouraging w...
29 Feb 202424min
133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time
The idea of being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. After all, a “personality disorder” is a serious thing… But what if people slinging this diagnosis have been wrong the whol...
22 Feb 202430min
132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...
15 Feb 202419min
131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...
8 Feb 202421min
