145: When It’s Hard to Work On Your Marriage and Forgiveness Seems Impossible to Achieve
Pornography use damages a relationship in deep and significant ways. Trust is broken and her wall goes up. The idea of forgiveness can feel impossible to offer, and a husband feels despair wondering i...
23 Maj 202423min
144: 5 Signs She’s Feeling Betrayal Trauma (And How You Can Address It)
When a woman discovers her husband's pornography use, her whole world gets turn upside down. Oftentimes she now thinks that everything was a lie. Their whole relationship was fake. They don't even kn...
9 Maj 202432min
143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day
When a spouse is gone for the day or weekend and a man is all alone, it's a common trigger. In this episode I share 3 specific things you can do to make sure that those periods of being alone won't ca...
3 Maj 202420min
142: Success Story: Todd is Free From Porn 2 Years Later (and here's how)
Change is 100% if you have the right ingredients. In today's episode, I want to introduce to you a man who has found success, and 2 years later, he continues to to do well, have a strong marriage, and...
25 Apr 202453min
141: Why a Husband Avoids Initiating Conversations and How to Resolve It
Initiating conversations can be very difficult for a husband to do. If his wife is in a good mood, he doesn’t want to bring up the pain all over again. If she's in a bad mood, he doesn't want to cause...
18 Apr 202425min
140: When Shame and "Self Pity" Dissolves Connection and Breaks Down the Conversation
How do the conversations go when you talk about her pain? Do they end with you feeling closer or further apart? Do you feel hopeless and inadequate, not knowing what to say to help her feel comforted?...
11 Apr 202427min
139: When a Wife Brings Up Her Husband's Lack of Follow Through
Have you ever gotten into an argument with your spouse where you're talking about specific actions that he's committed to do but then doesn't follow through? For a wife, it can feel really frustrating...
4 Apr 202420min
138: The Top 3 Ways to Kill Your Chances of Having a Strong Marriage
"We've been spinning our wheels for 9 months... I'm in a worst place now than the day I discovered everything." A couple reached out to me a few hours before recording this episode. They were both dis...
29 Mars 202429min
