
Awareness Beats Clarity
Ever feel stuck trying to figure out what you want when something deeper is stirring inside you? I spent the last week going through a personal transformation that reminded me of something most coache...
19 Jan 12min

Decisions Can Be Messy
Ever feel like you're talking into the wind, trying hard to figure out what actually matters? I've been all over the place lately, experimenting with new formats and longer episodes. Truth is, I was ...
16 Jan 14min

Hard Things Make You Grow
I'm the most optimistic pessimistic guy you'll ever meet. Got it from my mom. She'd answer the phone with "What do you want?" then offer me money. I see the world exactly as it is. But I don't let it...
15 Jan 29min

You Have to Really Want It
Ever notice how the gym fills up in January? How everyone's pumped with fresh motivation? I walked in ready to crush my workout, and some guy was on my machine. My machine. I had my towel ready and e...
14 Jan 16min

Don't Break the Chain
My client Ralph said something that threw me off. He thinks I don't care what anybody thinks about me. That couldn't be further from the truth. I care deeply. Maybe too much sometimes. But I also kn...
13 Jan 12min

Do What Makes Your Heart Sing
Ever get advice that takes years to fully understand? My late wife Cheryl told me something on her deathbed that's finally clicking after 19 years. "Always do what makes your heart sing." I thought ...
12 Jan 13min

What Drives Any Goal
You've got clarity. You know what you want. But do you actually understand what's driving the whole thing? Most people focus on goal-setting and never dig into the psychology underneath. Today I'm br...
9 Jan 8min

Here's What Stops Everybody
You know what you want. You've got the vision. But something keeps stopping you from actually getting there. It's not lack of motivation. It's not that you aren't smart enough or capable. It's three ...
8 Jan 8min




















