82. Your Invisible Ceiling | The Difference Between Confidence and Worthiness
You can be confident and still have a ceiling. In this episode, I'm getting into something I think gets constantly conflated in the personal development space: the difference between confidence and wo...
27 Aug 12min
81. The First 10 Years Are Just Playing in the Dark | Deb Foster on 20 Years of Acting, Moving Countries, and Finding Her Worth
Welcome to The Grind — a new series here on Get Messy. Nobody tells you what the middle looks like: the slow seasons, the unglamorous work, and the years it actually takes to build something that last...
20 Aug 40min
80. The Ladder Never Ends | Learning to Love the Climb Instead of the Arrival
What if getting the thing you've been working toward doesn't feel the way you thought it would? In this mini episode, I'm unpacking something a guest said that I haven't been able to stop thinking abo...
17 Aug 10min
79. Stop Treating Your Life Like a Waiting Room | A Mindset Reset on Growth
Social media has us convinced that where we are right now is never quite enough — that there's always somewhere better to be, someone better to become, something better to be working toward. In this e...
13 Aug 6min
78. The Toddler in Your Head | Why Killing Your Ego Isn't the Answer
What if your ego isn't the villain you've been told it is? In this mini episode, I'm offering a reframe I got from my friend Sasha Feldman (actor-turned-therapist and a past Get Messy guest): the ego ...
10 Aug 5min
77. Burn the Timeline | Sam Valentine on Feedback Loops, Vulnerability, and Making It Your Own Way
Sam Valentine is back on Get Messy, and this conversation is a masterclass in staying sane inside an industry that runs on manufactured urgency and radio silence. Sam — actor, podcaster (Working Actor...
6 Aug 1h 4min
76. Climb Cringe Mountain | 5 Mindset Shifts Getting Me Through the Second Half of 2026
We're a little more than halfway through the year, and if 2026 hasn't looked the way you thought it would either — you're in the right place. This episode is my honest mid-year check-in: bookings and ...
30 Juli 22min
75. Success Has No Zip Code | I Left LA and My Career Got Better
I've moved six times in six years — LA to Virginia Beach to Miami to Virginia Beach to Miami to Virginia Beach, and now Kansas City — and through all of it, my voiceover career has kept growing. So to...
27 Juli 11min
