How To Be A Submissive Wife

React in a positive way to what your husband has said How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did? If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself. Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy. Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time? He will see negative remarks as a challenge to his authority in the home.

12 Okt 201932s

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily How often do you react to what your husband has said without thinking about it first? Moreover, how often have you overreacted? Engaging your mouth before you engage your brain is one of the biggest causes of petty arguments in a marriage. If you stop and think before you react, you will eliminate lots of petty arguments from your marriage. A calm, considered reply will be received better by your husband; he will listen and be more likely to see your point of view when you talk to him calmly instead of an instant heated reply. Often when you stop and think you will react entirely differently, you will see that what your husband has said is not as bad as you first thought and is not worth an argument and in many cases he is probably right to have said what he said. When you don't stop and think before replying you are creating a more relaxed atmosphere in the home, instant heated replies cause unnecessary tension and in some cases, the husband will feel you are trying to take away his authority. A husband who is new to this lifestyle and still adjusting to being HoH will feel threatened and confused by this, while a husband who is sure of his position in the home may take a firm stand on this and deal with your behaviour accordingly. Remember: Engage your brain before your mouth

11 Okt 20191min

A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband. Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control. Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart. In a traditional gender role marriage "Your Husband Will Rule Over You"

10 Okt 201939s

Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you Are you guilty of the following: Interrupting your husband when he speaks Finishing his sentences for him Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important Looking around instead of at him while he speaks Checking your phone while he speaks Stat talking to another person It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks. Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him. Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason

9 Okt 201945s

A Submissive Wife should manage her home well, it takes a great deal of skill, and hard work to do it properly, being a Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day seven days a week with no holidays. As a wife, you have many roles to fill Childminder, Nurse, Cleaner, Cook, Teacher etc. Hopefully, your learning on how to be a good wife will of started when you were a child it is the mother's place to teach her daughters the skills she will need later in life. Unfortunately, modern life is changing how the families live, and many mothers do not have the time or even want to teach their daughters the skills either because they have to work full-time jobs then come home and start again or that they have modern views on marriage. There is now lots of pressure on young women not to be "Submissive" in the home; women get told that she should be in charge as well. The sad fact is that it has never been harder than it is now for a young woman to get married and live a traditional lifestyle where she is the Submissive Wife, and her husband is the Head Of The House. The thing I find strange about modern times is that women have fought for the have the right to choose how they live, but now women who want to live a traditional married life feel pressured not to and many fear ridicule if they tell their friends. Modern views are taking away the right to live freely and openly traditional life Lots of young ladies now face marriage without the necessary skill set to be a good wife and run the home well. The pressure of being a new wife is hard enough without being poorly prepared and not having the necessary skill sets. The good news is you can learn the skills you need, remember that when you get married your husband knows that you are not going to be perfect from day one, there will be disasters in the kitchen and times when a takeaway meal is the only option. To help new and also existing wives I am going to post more practical tips and articles on running the home. Things like how to budget, how to do meal plans etc. The skills a young wife must have. I am also offering one on one mentoring sessions to cover these skills if you would like more information on these and the cost contact me,

8 Okt 20192min

A Submissive Wife should not worry about ageing, just because your skin ages, your hair greys and you gain a little weight does not mean that you are no longer desirable to your husband. You are still the same beautiful, radiant woman inside and out; you still have what it takes for your husband. Your husband has aged the same as you; you are growing old together your love for each other will become stronger each day. Your sex life will change with time, things may be slower but this does not mean your husband does not want you, with age comes "experience" you have both learnt over the years how to please each other. The knee-trembler in the kitchen will still happen, not at the same frantic pace but the love you feel will be way more intense than it was Any husband worthy of a Submissive Wife would never think of leaving his wife because she has aged, a worthy husband only sees the beauty in his wife. So stop worrying about ageing and enjoy growing old together

7 Okt 201956s

A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed; it is not enough to lie there thinking about your day or the things you have to do. You need to mentally and physically engage with your husband. If you are not careful sex can become tedious for both you and your husband over time. Don't allow sex to become a set routine, vary when and how you make love. Flirt with your husband, make your husband feel wanted. The more effort you put into your sex life, the stronger the bond with your husband will become. Sex is not just for reproduction it is a gift for married couples to enjoy. If you think sex for pleasure is dirty, wrong or sinful then why were you given a clitoris it's purpose is to provide you with pleasure, nothing that happens is a marriage bed that gives pleasure and does not harm or hurt is wrong.

6 Okt 201946s

Teach your children to be obedient It is not enough to show them you love by only showing your children affection; you also have to love them enough to discipline them. They have to learn from an early age that no means no, don't touch means do not touch if they disobey they have to learn that there will be consequences. Many of today's children have been allowed to run wild with no discipline in the home; this often leads to a life of crime and violence is this what you want for your children?

5 Okt 201932s