64: What is the female gaze?
What do straight women find attractive? Too many men think the answer is ‘big muscles’ says Ash, who has a big theory about sensuality. Plus: what to do when your boss is a bigot. Come and see If I Sp...
13 Maj 202557min
63: Do people just want to be told what to do?
Moya has a big theory and you’re not going to like it: most of us would rather be told how to live our lives by someone else than work it out ourselves. Could it be? Plus, advice for a broken-hearted ...
6 Maj 20251h 2min
62: I’m not sure I want to call myself a feminist anymore…
Ash and Moya confront their feelings after a bad fortnight for feminism, from Katy Perry in space to the Supreme Court’s anti-trans ruling. Plus: advice on divorcing parents and compulsive exercising....
29 Apr 202556min
61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown
Ash speaks to author Natasha Brown about the big questions raised by her acclaimed second novel Universality, a ‘whydunnit’ mystery about identity, class and how we (re)invent ourselves. Plus: a dilem...
22 Apr 202556min
60: Are we too addicted to convenience?
Ash and Moya answer a mystery question and wonder if our quest for a life of convenience was a mistake. Plus: advice for a listener dating a much, much older man. PSA: We’re going live at EartH in Lon...
15 Apr 202551min
59: Does my ex owe me money for the house we renovated?
Moya and Ash offer advice to a special one who’s lost everything after renovating a house with their ex. Plus: what if some of us are ‘relationship people’ while the rest are better off alone? We’re n...
8 Apr 20251h 1min
58: I want to be fun again. Help!
Ash has an intrusive thought that she thinks Moya can help with: make me fun again! Plus advice for a listener navigating the identity politics of the student council. We’re now yapping on TikTok! Fol...
1 Apr 202557min
57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?
Nicola Dinan returns to the show to talk about her second novel, Disappoint Me, and respond to Moya’s question about how to deal with a partner’s past mistakes. Plus, dilemmas about lip filler and bot...
25 Mars 20251h 9min
