
Episode 282: 32 Flavors (of FUN)
Vanilla ice cream is fine... but what if you never tried anything else? Alli and Melisa dive into the misconception that it's a prerequiste to be repulsed by men to consider yourself a lesbian. We als...
12 Jan 202538min

Episode 281: Meet Kristin "Throw a Boulder in Your Pond"
Kristin shares her coming out story that includes undoing deep religious trauma, internalized homophobia and how she's keeping a positive relationship with her ex-husband. Become a supporter of this p...
5 Jan 202551min

Episode 280: Don't Feed the Big Bad Wolf
Alli and Melisa address the Native American parable, the Tale of Two Wolves and how that weaves into life today. Feed the good wolf!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast...
22 Dec 202442min

Episode 278: Holiday Mental Prep
The holidays are a tough time... and they haven't gotten any easier for us over the years. Alli and Melisa talk about how to prepare for the hard moments during the holidays -- and how to compromise w...
8 Dec 202435min

Episode 277: Meet Meredith/Baby Gays ATX
"You can't be the cause and the cure."Meredith (Baby Gays ATX) joins the show again to talk about how sex therapy and EMDR helped uncover her true sexuality, learning to sit in discomfort of coming ou...
1 Dec 202448min

Episode 276: Full On Favreau/Baby Gays ATX
Melisa and Alli chat about how we're all a little weird when we're first coming out. We all have our own Answering Machine Meltdowns a la Jon Favreau in Swingers. And Meredith from Baby Gays ATX joins...
24 Nov 202454min

Episode 275: Choosing People Who Don't Choose You
Alli and Melisa deep dive on the Big vs. Aidan dynamic in Sex and the City (random, yes... but relevant) and how people often choose partners who aren't choosing them. Also a lesson on keeping the rel...
17 Nov 202438min

Episode 274: Be Like Bex
Our friend Bex (known her killer karaoke skills) joins the show to share her coming out story -- her journey to find the perfect name, and how she built community following her move from Vermont to At...
10 Nov 202453min




















