Not As We Planned

We discuss the danger of staying in a relationship just because there’s no infidelity, when you catch your husband cheating on you, and wanting some reassurance from us about making that decision to l...

27 Mars 202540min

We talk about the difference between mums and dads and how men get praised for doing the bare minimum, getting told your marriage is over with a letter left in the kitchen and we give advice about tha...

20 Mars 202542min

We discuss the clues of trying to spot a swinger, finding out your friend was having an affair with your husband and realising it’s time to call it a day with your cheating partner!Link to our shop - ...

13 Mars 202547min

We both deeply reflect on our previous relationships after divorce and how we came to accept they weren’t right for us, and we also discuss why it’s important to know as single mums what we offer to t...

6 Mars 202539min

Finding out your husband is having a fling with his accountant! Having to come clean to your ex about your secret new partner and learning to finally DO THE WORK!Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned....

27 Feb 202541min

Carly opens up about her break up, we explain how to move forward and let go of feeling attached to your ex, and managing someone with an addiction.Link to our shop - www.notasweplanned.shopProducer: ...

20 Feb 202542min

Carly shares an emotional update, we hear from the woman who cheated, we get a lovely update from a listener and the dreading question of are we dating the same guy?Producer: @TristanHehirCity Lights ...

13 Feb 202536min

Would you go back to a relationship where there’s no trust? Learning to set boundaries when coparenting, how to help your children handle big emotions about your divorce and finding pills for herpes....

6 Feb 202540min