Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day. In today’s episode:Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300%My scientifically-endorsed method for getting daily sun exposure between the prime hours of 12 and 2; when people are typically told to "avoid the sun". Why getting sun in your shadow places is so lit! 🔥https://www.instagram.com/kimanami/

28 Apr 202211min

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is. For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for: BondageDisciplineDominationSubmissionSadismMasochismEven me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”. And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it. Just like how I teach about sex. i would say that the most “junk food” version of sex is to jerk off to porn, racing to the finish line of the goal of just having an orgasm for stress relief or to you put yourself to sleep. The gourmet sex version, that I teach, is about having sexual experiences that take you to heights of ecstasy and bliss, give you orgasms that last for hours, and through that you are transformed. You become a better, more self-realized of yourself. It’s the same in BDSM. The deepest themes for me in my BDSM exploration have been playing with surrender and control, and with archetypal feminine and masculine energies. The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. In today’s episode: Using conscious BDSM to generate explosive chemistry in your relationship Why 50 Shades of Grey was a worldwide hit. Hint: these are primal energies we are all turned on by and crave Amplifying the divine masculine and feminine through conscious and sensual BDSMHow BDSM is a fantastic tool for shadow work Sexy demo examples of some classic BDSM moves  Signup for the Coming Together for Couples salon: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

15 Apr 202211min

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex.It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from.This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body.And so are the bad ones.It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them.As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open.To penetrate them (man or woman) so deeply, that they forget who they are, they drop all the preconceived, civilized notions of who they are, and a truer, deeper, more real and powerful version of themselves rises to the surface.F*ck them until you change them.If you've finished making love with your partner and they aren't glowing, if they aren't looking at you like you are some kind of messiah god (does this seem lofty? I promise you it isn't), then you have further to go.My big, barometric question is always: Does sex leave you feeling rejuvenated, energized, transformed, ecstatic and fuck-changed?If not, you are doing it wrong.My work is all about showing you how to do it right.Of all the years—about 30—and all the different therapies—a shit ton—that I've experimented with over the years, none have changed me so quickly, so profoundly and so permanently as really. good. f*cking.The kind of f*cking that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action.To help create the kind of f*cking that changes you, listen to today’s episode.In the Coming Together Salon, it’s all about the art of the Phoenix f-ck change.   How to have the kind of sex that changes your life.   The kind that brings you daily, good-f**k medicine, wildly ecstatic orgasms, a deeper connection than you ever thought possible, both with yourself and your partner, In the salon, we touch on every aspect I’ve covered in today’s episode including: Guided, step-by-step lingam and yoni massage Clarity and communication techniques How to build stamina and become a marathon fucker for menHow to achieve the deeper, vaginal orgasms for women My secrets to marathon sex and getting high via your 3-hour sex dates. And much more! To check out the free preview video series for the salon and to signup, go to: https://kimanami.com/coming-together-couples-salon/

10 Apr 20221h 2min

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being.Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are. One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vagina is the jade yoni egg. By building strength, sentience and articulation in the vagina, increasing circulation and oxygen flow, ALL things flow better: from lubrication to hormone transport to orgasms. The other practice I recommend is yoni massage. With focused, loving attention, we can transform a numb vagina into a multi-orgasmic and highly aroused one. In today’s episode: Benefits of yoni massage, including increased libido, lubrication and vaginal orgasms 15 techniques for a blissful, life-changing yoni massage Our epic flower mandala yoni All star interview with Tania sharing how she initially had pain in her vagina, and through yoni massage that gave way to numbness, and then pleasure.  You'll find my fully guided yoni massage routine in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week signature online program for couples where we cover everything from squirting techniques in my entire Orgasmapedia, male stamina and marathon sex, communication skills and Tantric and Taoist practices. Click here to sign up now.

8 Apr 202232min

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock.We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure.And yours.Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock.Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

1 Apr 202225min

Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world.  It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth.Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner. An anointing! To coax these emissions out of a woman requires trust, openness and surrender.  These qualities are INFUSED into her essence. Which is why it’s such a potent gift to receive, for both. In this episode: - Why squirting is an essential life skill for women- Five facts about squirting- How it feels in the body and emotionally - Nine steps to squirting mastership- The benefits of ingesting “amrita” - How our all star Freya went from low interest in sex, to becoming a prolific, soak-the-sheets squirting sensation

24 Mars 202241min

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want!

18 Mars 20228min

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss? Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn. You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy. The more you treat foreplay like its own sex act and endgame, the deeper your sexual experiences will be. There are stories in ancient Tantric texts about the ultimate battle for lovers: To make the other come first. Your job is to tantalize, tease and stimulate your partner so they live in an ongoing state of arousal. Yes, this is possible. In this episode, we'll discuss how:

11 Mars 202212min