Ep. 90 - Not Even a Hint
Ephesians 5:3 Says this "but among you there must not even be a hint of sexual immorality, or any kind of impurity"Some of us have heard this verse as sort on an unattainable standard that makes us fe...
23 Sep 202420min
Ep. 89 - Delight and Desire
Today Vern explores how 2 words - delight and desire can go a long way in giving us immunity to the outside pull of porn and other distractions!If you as a pastor are looking for a safe place to turn ...
15 Juli 202415min
Ep. 88 - Father's Day - How to Be a Good and Safe Man
This last Sunday Vern spoke on Sunday morning on how men can move from being an *ss to being good and safe men - something women, our churches and our communities desperately need more of.If you are l...
18 Juni 202444min
Ep. 87 - Quit Your Grovelling
Have you ever had God tell you to quit your grovelling? Today Vern explores a bible story where that happens and relates it to our recovery walk.If you are looking for a safe place to talk to regardi...
29 Maj 202417min
Ep. 86 - The Hardest Sermon You'll Ever Give
In this episode Vern answers the question - what is the hardest sermon you'll ever give? I truly believe this episode is crucial to both listen to and keep in your constant awareness as a pastor. If...
13 Maj 202424min
Ep. 85 - Seasons of Susceptibility
As I talk and work with pastors I have noticed that there are 3 seasons of vulnearabilitywhere patterns of sexual brokenness seem to emerge in our lives. In this episode I lay out those seasons and t...
6 Maj 202429min
Ep. 84 - Examination and Confession
This last Sunday Vern spoke at church regarding the spiritual step of self examiniation and confession. As pastors struggling with our sexual brokenness - it provides a crucial "powerpoint" that is a...
22 Apr 202438min
Ep. 83 - Sitting in Your Sin
Most of us seek to deny, hide, run from or rail agains the sin which dogs our steps. In this episode Vern proposes a counter intuitive approach that he believes will actually result in better results...
8 Apr 202425min
