
123 Weasel Words and Creating More Intimacy in your Relationships
There are things you can do to build intimacy in your relationships, and things you can do that can break it down. We're talking about wording agreements and commitments in ways that avoid leaving bac...
26 Aug 202341min

122 Get The Skills to Build your Own Relationship - With Guest Expert Carrie Jeroslow
Do the limited choices on the mainstream relationship menu leave you feeling restless and looking for something else? Do you think something more customized would suit you and your partners or partner...
19 Aug 20231h

121 Am I cut out for non-monogamy? Finding safety during your exploration
Non-monogamy is a big adventure. It's also a huge source of fear and dysregulation for a lot of us. Individuating also involves quite a bit of discomfort. When that all gets too much, you can fall b...
12 Aug 202328min

120 How do I break through relationship stagnation?
If you've got a relationship that's feeling like it's hit a plateau, what can you do? It doesn't matter if it's with a romantic partner or a friend or a family member, the moves are pretty similar. We...
5 Aug 202348min

119 Soft Cock Week with guest expert Michelle Renee
Wiggly, firm, soft, rigid - peens are shape shifters. Why does that matter? Well, somebody you know might have one, and they might have feelings about that, what with the cultural pressures brought to...
22 Juli 202345min

118 Are there quick and easy ways to manage stress? A: Yes. With guest experts Elisabeth Kristof, Melanie Weller, and Matt Bush
You're alive in a human body, so you have a nervous system, and sometimes it freaks out. What do you do then? We learned Neuro-Somatic Intelligence from the incomparable Elisabeth Kristof, Melanie Wel...
15 Juli 202356min

117 Business and pleasure with Beth Hankes
How much more satisfying would work be if you brought more of yourself into your work relationships? Joli talks with Beth Hankes (she/her) about the benefits of bringing your relational skills into th...
9 Juli 202337min

116 Mindful Dating with guest expert Marie Thouin
Guess what they didn't teach us in school? HOW TO DATE. Much less how to date MINDFULLY. Even less-less when we are ready to date non-monogamously. My lovely colleague and fellow Ph.D. Researcher, ...
1 Juli 202354min



















