107 Power dynamics for non-kinksters (part 2) How to share power when you were raised to be an entitled jerk & a martyr
Jung has this great quote “Where love rules, there is no will to power, and where power predominates, love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other.” The shadow of love is power in Jung's estima...
17 Apr 202350min
106 The conversation that will change your life: Power dynamics for non-kinksters
It's no secret that we started our relationship in a bad place. Together, we worked and learned our way from a painful, confused state to a conscious, growth-oriented, and gentle love. We transformed ...
8 Apr 202347min
105 Shadow work: What if your monsters were trying to help you live the life you always wanted?
If your monsters could help you live more of the life you want to live, would you get to know them, and invite them in? What about sharing them with a trusted partner in a thoughtful, conscious proces...
1 Apr 202344min
104 Help! What can I do with all my feelings when my partner is on a date?
Having a plan for when your partner goes on a date makes it way more likely that you will both have a positive relationship experience, no matter how the date itself goes. What goes into our plans? W...
25 Mars 202348min
103 How to successfully ask your partner to explore non-monogamy
Bringing up non-monogamy can be a shock to your partner's system. But if you never bring it up, you'll never even know what's possible for you. Here's how you can plan for success and make this potent...
11 Mars 202336min
102 How to find, create, and enjoy non-monogamous community with guest expert Libby Sinback
Libby Sinback, from Making Polyamory Work joins Joli for a conversation about one of the BEST parts of shifting from monogamy to non-monogamy: community that supports your authentic self. More connect...
4 Mars 20231h 15min
101 Three ways of being polyamorous
Is polyamory something innate in you, like an orientation? Is it a practice? A philosophy? A mindset? An identity? A choice? Being able to describe your approach to polyamory makes it easier to conne...
25 Feb 202351min
100 Finding relationship happiness through creative projects
It's our 100th episode of Playing with Fire! This podcast was intended to be 13 episodes to cover each chapter of Joli's first book... and here we are with 100 episodes in and feeling more excited abo...
18 Feb 202338min
