He Turned Me Into Porn . . . Now I Don't Want Sex at All—Is This Normal?!
This episode (327) centers on a betrayed partner who, after uncovering her husband’s secret pornography use, finds herself increasingly sexually averse despite his apparent efforts toward recovery. He...
6 Apr 42min
The NECESSITY of Community in Recovery & Healing for Addicts and Betrayed Partners
In Episode 326, we highlight the critical truth that both addiction and betrayal trauma are fueled by isolation and secrecy, making community an essential part of the healing process. Addicts often wi...
31 Mars 40min
Why Does My Heart Keep Moving Further Away . . . Even Though He’s Finally Trying?!
Episode 325 centers on a betrayed partner who feels increasingly disconnected from her husband, even though he has recently begun making genuine recovery efforts. After ten years of repeated cycles of...
24 Mars 43min
Can I or We ever Heal from his Trickled Truths, Multiple D-Days and Ongoing Lies?!
Many betrayed partners face the heartbreaking experience of trickle truth—when pieces of the truth about sexual betrayal emerge slowly over time instead of all at once. In this episode (324), we respo...
16 Mars 43min
Can Someone Who Lived a Secret Sexual Life for 40 Years Ever be Truly Sober?
In this episode (323), we address a heartbreaking submission from a betrayed partner who discovered that her husband of over forty years had been living a secret sexual life throughout their entire ma...
11 Mars 55min
Relationship Healing Lives or Dies on "Consistent Transparency!"
(PBSE Episode 322) In relationships impacted by pornography or sex addiction, the greatest damage often comes not only from the betrayal itself but from the pattern of secrecy and withheld truth that ...
4 Mars 45min
Guardrails or Walls? Moving from Sexual Aversion to Healthy Intimacy in Recovery
Episode 321 addresses a vulnerable question from a man in recovery who fears he may have “overcorrected”—moving from sexual addiction to sexual numbness. After establishing over a year of sobriety, he...
25 Feb 42min
He has the Right to Completely Screw Up His Life!
In episode 320, we address a betrayed partner’s heartbreaking story of separation turning into divorce as her husband’s addiction spirals further out of control. What was supposed to be a wake-up call...
17 Feb 46min
