If You Don't Have Honesty—You Don't Have Much
This episode starts with Mark and Steve getting super raw about how lying was a big part of their addiction years and early recovery. - There are MANY "layers of lies" that can be obvious or very s...
20 Okt 202035min
Are YOU Choosing Your Life . . . OR . . . is "IT" Choosing You?
Mark and Steve get personal and talk about how, for much of their lives, they lived in "victim mode" and ran around spouting off cliches like, "I'm a realist," and "It is what it is," and "Things neve...
13 Okt 202036min
In Recovery & Healing—Is God Your Problem or Your Solution?
In this episode, Mark and Steve talk raw and real about their personal "God journeys"—how God operated in their lives BEFORE recovery and healing (crazy dysfunctional!)—and how their God relationships...
6 Okt 202036min
Hey, we're doing well, so we can let up on our Boundaries—Right?
When things have been going well for awhile in addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing, there can be a temptation to relax the boundaries we've agreed to. This can also seem like a viable optio...
29 Sep 202032min
I'm Not Sexually Attracted to My Partner—Are We Done?
We live in a culture that can easily tend to make physical/sexual attraction the "be all, end all," in marriage relationships. In this episode, Mark and Steve share their own raw and real marriage exp...
22 Sep 202044min
How to Have DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS that bring TRUE CONNECTION!
Our most DIFFICULT conversations can also be the most CONNECTING! In this episode, Mark and Steve get raw and real about WHY we avoid difficult and uncomfortable conversations and HOW we can turn th...
15 Sep 202036min
How Do We Become Trapped in a "Marriage Crisis" and Can We Ever Come Back Together?
Porn addiction, Betrayal Trauma and other challenges can plunge us hopelessly into a seemingly perpetual pattern of Negative Relationship Patterns! This constant negativity wears us down until we can'...
8 Sep 202038min
How "Pain Avoidance" feeds Addiction & Betrayal Trauma!
It's natural to avoid pain--that protection mechanism is built directly into the human brain. BUT, "pain avoidance" often creates and then feeds Addiction. And it can also keep us trapped in Betrayal ...
1 Sep 202035min
