Positively Sex! with Lila

Hello darlings! This episode is all about The Big O! Climax! Orgasm! Coming! (Or Cumming!) Yes! Yes! Yes! Many of us crave it. Fantasize about it. Jump through hoops to achieve it. But what, exactly, ...

20 Jan 20231h 10min

Hello darlings! Positively Sex! is on hiatus for two weeks, & here are three ways you can keep engaging, with pleasure! Coming (and coming) back January 19th. MWAH! See omnystudio.com/listener for pri...

6 Jan 20233min

Do you know your relationship orientation? Relationship scientist, sex researcher, & NYU professor Dr. Zhana Vrangalova shares some controversial new research on gender identity, discusses sexual ori...

31 Dec 202245min

The State of Sex Address is a glance around the world, around the U.S., around my community, and inside myself.Taking stock of what I witness, hear, and feel from the media, pop culture, the governmen...

23 Dec 202244min

In this episode, Sexuality Coach Hannah Deindorfer shares something that might change your mind about shame (kink, anyone?), a method of investigating shame with curiosity, and, ultimately, a path to ...

16 Dec 202252min

This week, Indonesia banned sex before marriage. When the new laws go into effect, anyone caught can be jailed — up to a year for sex, 6 months for living together. Including foreigners. The new crimi...

9 Dec 202251min

Colin-Alexa (Callie for short) shares the story of their first time going to a sex club solo, getting cruised by a couple, and being a unicorn for the night: the object of desire.Woven through the tel...

1 Dec 202255min

Marcia B., co-founder of Cuddle Party, and Lila discuss desires & fantasies, offers & requests, no's & negotiations, the difference between boundaries & limits, the crucial question, "Who is this for?...

28 Nov 20221h 2min