Episode 17: The Intersection of Honesty and Pleasure
At the end of our last conversation, after we'd stopped recording, Hans shared an epiphany... It was an "ah ha!" moment for several of us. It shed light on why so many people have a hard time STOPPING...
30 Mars 20211h 1min
Episode 16: What To Do When Someone Crosses Your Sexual Boundaries
We talk about boundaries a lot. Last week's conversation was ALL about boundaries and agreements. But rarely do we talk about what to do when a boundary is crossed, or when you cross a boundary. How s...
30 Mars 20211h
Episode 13: Sexual Shame
"I hate myself." "If anyone knew what I've done, they would be appalled." "I'm unworthy of love." These statements are fueled by sexual shame. The definition of sexual shame is: "... A visceral feelin...
12 Jan 20211h 3min
Episode 12: Help! I am out of Control!
I promise I'll stop looking at porn... I commit to my partner... I commit to myself... I commit to God... And yet, a few days/weeks/months later, I'm typing words in the search bar. Words I'm ashamed ...
22 Dec 20201h
Episode 11: The Subtle Ways We Exploit Each Other
Exploitation is when a person leverages their power and control to get what they want. Do you have an outcome or a goal in mind when you tune in to our show? Is your goal to stop (or get your partner ...
22 Dec 20201h 2min
Episode 10: When Wives Rethink Porn
(If you enjoy today's conversation, check out our other episodes at rethinkingpornaddiction.com) The conversation around pornography is often (sadly) one-sided. The husband is typically the one trying...
22 Dec 202043min
Episode 9: When is Sexual Behavior Out of Control?
If it's not medically accurate to call pornography an addiction (as we've talked about in past conversations), what does it mean when you feel out-of-control? How do you draw the line between problema...
22 Dec 20201h 1min
Episode 8: Sexual Health vs. Healthy Sexuality
Sexual Health and Healthy Sexuality... They sound the same, but they're not. Today we're going to dive deeper into the principles and ideas of sexual health. We'll talk about how everyone's definition...
22 Dec 20201h 1min
