What’s Real and What Isn’t in a Man’s Commitment
If you find yourself taking the responsibility for the relationship and the apologeticness of the conflicts that happen all the time… if you’re always trying to solve stuff, excusing him for bad behav...
12 Sep 20259min
You Don’t Need His Approval to Move Forward
You already have a script inside you — from your parents, your school, your society, your religion.But are you actually living your life on your playbook or somebody else’s?Many women wake up in midli...
5 Sep 202515min
When He Puts You on the Sidelines (Here’s How to Take the Stage)
If you ever find yourself feeling invisible in a room with your man and his friends, pause and ask: Why am I here? If this is an everyday pattern, that’s a red flag. But if he’s otherwise a great guy,...
29 Aug 202514min
A Spiritual Experience Disguised as a Date
If you are pulling away from him because he’s too handsome or you’re pulling away because he’s not handsome enough, ask yourself, “Okay, this is a free therapy session with a man who showed up. Let’s ...
22 Aug 20258min
Feminine Energy Is NOT About Making Him Like You
Why do we care what he thinks if you pay or you don’t pay? Why are you making a big deal out of it? … This is the old thing about wanting him to like us. I’m gonna do this so he’ll like me. This is no...
15 Aug 20259min
De-Armoring Your Words for Real Connection
Vulnerability is scary, intimacy is scary—no matter how much we say we want it. But today, how we shift our words to be soft, to be inviting, to be siren-y, like the Siren concept of creating a healin...
8 Aug 20259min
Can He Care for You Without “Getting” You? Feminine Energy in Neurodiverse Love
A man who can’t meet you emotionally… can’t. He just can’t.But he still may be a good partner. Perhaps.Everywhere I go—and I’ve talked about this before—I meet women who’ve divorced men, left men, or ...
1 Aug 202518min
If He Can’t Handle You Crying…
Once you are vulnerable and somebody shuts you down because they don’t know what to do with it, you’re going to have double reactions: “Oh, I shouldn’t have done that.”That is a clue that, number one,...
25 Juli 20258min
