The Attachment Trap Podcast with Tim & Susan Ervin. Love isn’t about finding the right person it’s about feeling safe enough to be yourself.
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast, where therapist and author Tim Ervin and his partner, Susan, dive into the messy, beautiful world of modern love.From anxious texting spirals to “why do I alway...
5 Okt 202513min
Episode 2: Beyond the Clouds: Mindfulness, Relaxation, and Hypnotic Calm
What if your thoughts were only passing visitors—clouds drifting through the sky, waves rolling across the ocean, leaves floating down a stream? Each week, we’ll explore guided mindfulness journeys, p...
3 Okt 202517min
Season 2, E1-Breaking the Cycle: EMDR + Hypnotherapy for Attachment and Relationships
Have you ever wondered why the same fights keep showing up in your relationships, even when you swear you’ll never repeat the pattern? You’re not broken, you’re human. And your nervous system is simpl...
18 Sep 20258min
Episode 13 – The Attachment Recap: Love, Safety, and Connection
In this Season 1 finale of The Attachment Trap Podcast, Tim Ervin brings everything full circle with a “Previously on…” style recap of Episodes 1–12. Think sitcom montage meets relationship psychology...
15 Sep 20257min
Episode 12: “Narcissistic traits light up old survival pathways intensity, speed, charisma but they don’t build real safety.”
Episode 12: When Charm Isn’t Safety: Why Your Nervous System Confuses Narcissistic Traits for LoveCharm can feel magnetic, but often it’s not the same as safety. In this episode, Tim Ervin explores wh...
8 Sep 202511min
Episode 11: Boundaries Without Burnout How to Say No Without Losing Connection
Saying no can feel terrifying, especially if your nervous system learned early on that love depended on compliance, helpfulness, or keeping the peace. In this episode, Tim Ervin unpacks why boundaries...
6 Sep 202510min
Episode 10: Dating smarter, healing faster, and learning to love without losing yourself.
Do you ever wonder why the people who give you the biggest butterflies also leave you the most drained? That’s the trap of mistaking chaos for chemistry. In this episode of The Attachment Trap Podcast...
5 Sep 202510min
Episode 9 – Textual Tango: Decoding Dating Texts Through Attachment & the Nervous System
Ever feel like your texting style is running your love life? Think Keeley from Ted Lasso firing off twenty texts in a row, all emojis and urgency, versus Ted himself, who sends a goofy message and the...
30 Aug 202512min
