The Kink Compass

Masochism isn’t about “loving pain”. It is about what sensation can become. In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores the masochist’s role in BDSM: from the history of the word to the body’s...

19 Okt 202540min

What does it really mean to “be a man” in kink?In this bonus episode, Chris talks about confidence versus control, why dominance isn’t about ego, and how emotional intelligence, patience, and respect ...

13 Okt 202511min

Sadism has a heavy history. From the Marquis de Sade to its misrepresentation in psychology. But in kink, sadism isn’t about cruelty. It’s about creating intensity with care, turning pain into connect...

12 Okt 202525min

Kink can feel like freedom, or like a familiar kind of chaos.In this bonus episode, Chris explores the difference between intensity that heals and intensity that hurts.What is a trauma bond, what make...

9 Okt 202510min

In kink, as in life, something always goes a little sideways. But that’s where the magic hides. Join Chris for a bonus episode on imperfection, adaptability, and how to stay grounded when your perfect...

8 Okt 202517min

What does it mean to be a Dominant. Truly and responsibly? In this episode, Chris explores the emotional heart of Dominance, from archetypes like the Caregiver, Sadist, and Pleasure Dom to the skills ...

5 Okt 202540min

Ever stressed yourself into knots before a scene. Only to realize, once it starts, you already had everything you needed? In this lighthearted bonus episode, Chris explores the overthinking, spirals, ...

30 Sep 202513min

In this deep dive, Chris explores what it really means to be submissive. From brats and service subs to slaves, prey, and rope bunnies. With care, humor, and honesty, we unpack myths, celebrate choice...

28 Sep 202538min