
Emotional Currents: Jealousy or The Fear of Not Being Chosen
Jealousy has a reputation for being ugly, but the internal experience is often far more vulnerable than that. In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores what jealousy actually feels like, why...
15 Mars 30min

The Grey Zone Before No
Consent is often imagined as a clear yes or no. But many real interactions unfold in the grey space before a boundary is spoken aloud. In this bonus episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores how sub...
10 Mars 13min

The Craft of Kink: Endurance and Flow
Most scenes in kink stumble: A wobble, a missed beat, a drop in rhythm. But here’s the secret: Flow isn’t about perfection, it’s about how we repair when things go wrong. In this milestone episode of ...
8 Mars 45min

When Power Becomes Authority.
Power exists in kink spaces. In scenes, in relationships, and sometimes in communities themselves.In this bonus episode, Chris explores how influence, leadership, and authority can form inside kink co...
5 Mars 19min

You Are Allowed To Want
When people first discover a desire that excites them, the next thought is often: What does that say about me? This bonus episode explores the shame many people carry around pleasure, and why wanting ...
4 Mars 11min

Easing Into Roleplay
Roleplay is something many kinky people are curious about, and many find surprisingly vulnerable when they first try it. That moment where you know what you want to do… and suddenly don’t know how to ...
1 Mars 20min

Loneliness in Kink
Loneliness is something many people experience in kink but very few talk about openly. In this deeply personal episode, Chris shares his own experiences of loneliness in the community, inside dynamics...
22 Feb 16min

The Path to Growth: Rethinking Legitimacy in Kink Spaces
In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores how societal scripts about power, gender, and maturity influence our perceptions of readiness and legitimacy within kink communities. We reflect on ...
15 Feb 26min



















