If It's Not Collaborative, It's Not Plan B
Are you setting limits when you're doing Plan B? Of course! You're setting limits whenever you're working collaboratively with kids on unmet expectations...and doing it collaboratively is far more pro...
24 Okt 201645min
The Log Gets Rid of the Blob
Lots of territory covered, as usual, on today's program...but we started off with good reasons to keep a log of incompatibility episodes: if you don't identify specific unsolved problems, then those e...
17 Okt 201643min
Too Big to Sling Over the Shoulder
What do you do when you can't sling your 15-year old over your shoulder anymore during meltowns? Solve those problems collaboratively and proactively. But that's not the only question that was answere...
3 Okt 201645min
Back to Can't Versus Won't
Some great phone discussions today...we received an update from an old friend about a kid we've known for years, helped a mom try to extract more information from her adolescent daughter, and revisite...
26 Sep 201645min
The Antidote for Parental Guilt: Back to Plan B
Parents sometimes behave in ways that they then regret. What to do afterward? Plan B. What to do beforehand? Plan B. Does a psychiatric or special education label move things along? Not when it comes ...
19 Sep 201644min
All Siblings Fight...Right?
On this, our first program of fall, 2016, Dr. Greene and Susy responded to lots of questions, including several about how to use Plan B on problems causing conflict between siblings.
12 Sep 201645min
I Still Have Expectations, Right?
If you're using the CPS model, does that mean you no longer have expectations for a child? Goodnesss, no. You can't parent without expectations; you can't have influence without expectations. How yo...
23 Maj 201645min
What IS My Expectation?
We adults are a whole lot better at noticing behaviors we don't like in our kids than we are at identifying expectations the kids is having difficulty meeting...and that's the hard part in wording uns...
16 Maj 201645min
