
The Other Woman With No Shame: Accountability vs. Regret
I was the other woman for five years and I don't regret it. That's the sentence that breaks people. The comments roll in every week telling me I should be ashamed, that I lack morals, that I should be...
14 Maj 19min

What to Do When Your Husband Keeps Cheating
In January 2009, my guest Naomi Kreske went looking through her husband's phone on a hunch. What she found ended the white picket fence life she thought she had: an affair, a relationship three months...
7 Maj 41min

Why I Felt Single Even During an Affair
I told one of my girlfriends the other day that despite being in serious relationships, I've always kind of felt single. And she said, me too. This episode is what came out of that.I'm not talking abo...
30 Apr 23min

How Raising My Expectations Ended the Affair
This week I'm talking about disappointment and how raising my expectations ended my five-year affair. It's the emotion I see most often in the messages listeners send me about infidelity, the other wo...
23 Apr 23min

Why Women Marry for Potential and End Up Having Affairs (Part 2)
This is part two of my conversation with Hope, the first woman to come on The Scarlet Edit and share her story as the one who cheated. If you haven't listened to part one yet, go back and start there....
16 Apr 43min

She Cheated on Her Husband — Her Side of the Story (Part 1)
This is a first for The Scarlet Edit. Hope was a married woman who cheated on her husband and has been bravely sharing that experience on social media.In this episode, she sits down with me for her ve...
9 Apr 38min

Can You Be the Other Woman and Not Feel Guilty?
I responded to every YouTube comment I got about my affair. Of the comments I share in this episode, only one person wrote me back. So, let's talk about it!This week I'm reading eight comments out lou...
2 Apr 24min

The Subconscious Patterns Behind Every Affair
Why do smart, successful people end up in affairs — and then can't leave? What's actually driving the pattern? And how do you know if you're settling or self-sabotaging?In this episode, I sit down wit...
26 Mars 58min



















