
I'm sexy, I'm cute! I'm popular to boot ;)
Most people believe body positivity is a journey of shame and self-criticism, until they experience the liberating confidence that comes with embracing their true self. In this candid episode, Lola an...
31 Mars 12min

They found out ...
Most of us don’t realize how quickly our private boundaries can be tested, until a family reunion makes everything painfully clear. Lola shares the surprising and cringe-worthy story of her brother ac...
27 Mars 30min

Mommy or Mamacita? Navigating Parenting in the Lifestyle
Follow us on Instagram @thesecretlifeofswingersMost parents believe that bringing lifestyle conversations into the mix is complicated. What if kids find out? But what if normalizing honesty and openne...
25 Mars 12min

Wanna Play?
Most people struggle to read the signs when someone in the lifestyle is into them, until they learn the subtle cues that reveal true interest. If you're tired of feeling unsure whether a flirtation is...
21 Mars 26min

Stay safe. Stay clean. Wrap it up.
Most people don't realize how openly the swinger community discusses sexual health, until they hear what makes their safety protocols so effective. If you're curious about how a community that values ...
17 Mars 9min

What’s the Difference?
Unlock the hidden complexities of modern relationships with a candid, humorous look at the spectrum from swinging to polyamory to open relationships. Whether you're curious about where you fit or just...
12 Mars 31min

Business Cards and Tokens
Forget all the generic advice about exchanging contact info, this episode reveals the wildest, most creative ways people actually share their info in the lifestyle. From business cards with QR codes l...
9 Mars 10min

Common Myths with Declan
Brooke & Declan pull back the curtain on the secret life of swingers busting myths, laughing at stereotypes, and sharing honest stories from the lifestyle. Expect spicy anecdotes, real talk about cons...
5 Mars 34min



















