FOCUSED ON THE WRONG VALUES?
Are you prioritising values in dating that aren't productive to you? Are you attracting low effort men who are drawn to your low self esteem? Is your fixation on morality keeping you stuck within the ...
29 Apr 202333min
THE FALLACY OF THE FRIENDZONE
Why is the word 'friendzone' such a loaded term? How did we arrive at a place where men have successfully managed to push the 'friends with benefits' propaganda whilst they largely remain the only peo...
20 Apr 202353min
REVENGE & REPARATIONS
Are men oppressed by misandry? Why do we feel bad about asking our oppressors for stuff? Has feminism worked for us in dating? Can reparative justice and wholesome revenge serve as liberationist praxi...
13 Apr 202349min
CUTTING OFF YOUR FRIENDS BUT KEEPING YOUR BOYFRIEND?
Why do we make exceptions and excuses for men yet, we penalise our female friends for similar offences? What happens when we enmesh our personalities with the men we are dating and in effect, we negle...
7 Apr 202351min
INSTINCTS VS IMPULSES
Are you really following your gut...or are you being led by your impulses? Does your pursuit of love compel you to operate from a place of FOMO and as a result, you keep finding yourself in situations...
30 Mars 202322min
THE PARADOX OF PEOPLE-PLEASING
Does being a people pleaser put you in a position where you're more likely to encounter financially and emotionally manipulative men? Are we conflating kindness with codependency? What do we gain from...
24 Mars 20231h 2min
DESPERATION IN DATING...
Have you ever considered that your desperation might be repelling the men who are actually meant for you? With the rise of 'femininity coaching', are men even worth the fixation we place on being 'fem...
17 Mars 202352min
DO YOU WANT 'CLOSURE' OR CONTROL?
Why do we even seek closure after a relationship has ended? Is it to find peace in a resolved answer? Are we secretly looking for one last opportunity to re-connect? Does ending a relationship on frie...
10 Mars 202337min
