Breaking the Silence: How Shame and Emotional Disconnection Are Quietly Destroying Men’s Mental Health with Mordy Gottlieb

Breaking the Silence: How Shame and Emotional Disconnection Are Quietly Destroying Men’s Mental Health with Mordy Gottlieb

In this powerful episode, licensed clinical social worker and certified sex addiction therapist Mordy Gottlieb pulls no punches as he exposes how shame, perfectionism, and emotional disconnection are silently eroding men’s lives. From hiding true selves behind masks to living a “living death” at 10% capacity, Mordy shares why most men only seek help after crisis hits (and usually because their partner forced them). He reveals practical ways to drop the armor, feel emotions in the body instead of the head, and finally start living instead of just surviving.

Key Takeaways:

  • Shame’s core belief: “If you really knew me, you wouldn’t accept me” → this creates deep loneliness even inside marriages and families.

  • Perfectionism isn’t strength; it’s a shield that guarantees burnout and disconnection.

  • Most men don’t come to therapy because they want change; they come in their 40s-60s after relationships, work, or addictions collapse.

  • Vulnerability is required for real intimacy; without it, your partner can only love the mask, not you.

  • Experiential therapy works because it gets men out of their heads and into their bodies (focus on physical sensations, not “feeling words”).

  • Hidden disconnection shows up as 6-8 hours of mindless scrolling, numbing, and avoiding what’s really going on inside.

  • First micro-step to reconnect: find anything safe (nature, a tree, a pet, a book) and let yourself feel supported.

  • Biggest myth to retire: “Life shouldn’t be hard.” Accept that struggle is normal; chasing perfection keeps you miserable forever.

  • Men have become “nice guys” who never say no or express needs → this breeds resentment and destroys accountability in relationships.

  • Ultimate fear holding men back: abandonment. Speaking your truth risks rejection, but silence guarantees disconnection.

  • Permission to play: healing isn’t just serious work; it’s also about becoming childlike, having fun, and not taking life so damn seriously.

Connect with Mordy Gottlieb:Website & Free 50-minute Discovery Session: https://www.thegamechangergroup.com/(Social media coming soon; Mordy is just stepping into the space!)

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Tech Troubles and Triumphs: Navigating Connectivity in Modern Conversations with Isabella Thor, CNTP

Tech Troubles and Triumphs: Navigating Connectivity in Modern Conversations with Isabella Thor, CNTP

In this episode of “Healthy Mind, Healthy Life,” host Avik Chakraborty attempts to connect with Isabella Thor, CNTP, amidst a series of technical difficulties. Despite the challenges, they persist in their efforts to establish a clear line of communication. This episode highlights the importance of patience and adaptability in the face of connectivity issues, a common hurdle in today’s digital age.   About the Guest Isabella Thor, CNTP is a Certified Nutrition Therapy Practitioner with a passion for holistic health and wellness. She brings a wealth of knowledge in nutrition and its impact on mental and physical well-being. Isabella’s expertise helps individuals achieve balanced and healthy lifestyles through personalized nutrition plans and wellness strategies.   Key Takeaways Patience is Key: Technical difficulties are a common part of modern communication. Patience and persistence are essential to overcoming these challenges. Adaptability: Being adaptable and finding alternative solutions, such as switching Wi-Fi networks, can help resolve connectivity issues. Importance of Clear Communication: Ensuring clear and effective communication is crucial, especially when discussing important topics related to health and wellness. Holistic Health: Isabella’s expertise in nutrition therapy underscores the importance of a holistic approach to health, integrating both mental and physical well-being. Digital Age Challenges: This episode serves as a reminder of the challenges and triumphs of navigating conversations in the digital age.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/

21 Syys 202431min

Unlocking Self-Mastery: Actionable Steps for Personal Growth with Pallavi Srivastava

Unlocking Self-Mastery: Actionable Steps for Personal Growth with Pallavi Srivastava

In this episode of “Healthy Mind, Healthy Life,” host Avik Chakraborty welcomes Pallavi Srivastava, a leadership coach, workplace wellbeing therapist, and CEO of Wellbeing Ways LLC. Pallavi shares her insights on self-mastery, offering actionable steps for personal growth and transformation. Tune in to discover practical strategies to enhance your personal and professional life.   About the Guest Pallavi Srivastava is a renowned leadership coach and workplace wellbeing therapist. As the CEO of Wellbeing Ways LLC, she has dedicated her career to helping individuals and organizations achieve their highest potential. With a background in psychology and extensive experience in coaching, Pallavi specializes in guiding people towards self-mastery and personal transformation.   Key Takeaways Understanding Self-Mastery: Pallavi explains the concept of self-mastery and its importance in personal and professional development. Actionable Steps for Growth: Learn practical steps to enhance your personal growth, including setting clear goals, developing self-awareness, and maintaining a positive mindset. Overcoming Challenges: Pallavi discusses common obstacles to self-mastery and how to overcome them. Workplace Wellbeing: Insights into creating a healthy work environment that promotes wellbeing and productivity. Personal Transformation: Real-life examples and strategies to help you embark on your journey of personal transformation.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/

21 Syys 202427min

Leadership and Growth: Navigating Personal and Professional Challenges with Adam Birnbaum

Leadership and Growth: Navigating Personal and Professional Challenges with Adam Birnbaum

In this episode of “Healthy Mind, Healthy Life,” host Avik Chakraborty engages in a compelling conversation with Adam Birnbaum, an accomplished executive coach. They explore the intricate connections between personal growth, mental health, and leadership. Adam shares his journey through the challenges of burnout, imposter syndrome, and aligning leadership with personal values. His insights provide valuable lessons on resilience and realignment, offering listeners practical strategies to navigate their own leadership and personal growth journeys.   About the Guest Adam Birnbaum is a seasoned executive coach with extensive experience working with founders, CEOs, and top-level leaders across various industries. His path to leadership has been marked by significant challenges, including burnout and imposter syndrome. Through resilience and a commitment to personal values, Adam has emerged as a leader who empowers others with his hard-earned wisdom and practical strategies for growth.   Key Takeaways Resilience in Leadership: Overcoming challenges like burnout and imposter syndrome is crucial for effective leadership. Aligning Values: Aligning personal values with leadership roles can lead to more authentic and impactful leadership. Personal Growth: Continuous personal growth is essential for leaders to navigate the complexities of their roles. Empowerment Through Experience: Adam’s journey highlights the importance of using personal experiences to empower and guide others. Holistic Approach: Integrating mental health and personal growth into leadership practices can lead to more balanced and effective leadership.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/

21 Syys 202415min

Man Up: Reclaiming Purpose, Health, and Relationships with Cameron Race

Man Up: Reclaiming Purpose, Health, and Relationships with Cameron Race

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, Avik Chakraborty sits down with Cameron Race, founder of the Man Up Dad movement. Cameron shares his transformative journey from being stuck in mediocrity, unhealthy habits, and strained relationships to becoming a powerful role model for his family and a guide for men looking to reclaim control over their lives. Learn how a sudden shift in his career and family life became the turning point that led him to rebuild himself physically, mentally, and spiritually. Cameron’s story is a blueprint for professional men, entrepreneurs, and high achievers who want to break free from limiting beliefs and embrace the best versions of themselves. About the Guest: Cameron Race is the founder of the Man Up Dad movement, a personal transformation initiative aimed at helping men break free from the traps of mediocrity, destructive habits, and disconnected relationships. After years of working in the banking industry, Cameron faced a life-altering moment when he lost his job and realized that his pursuit of success had come at the expense of his health, relationships, and happiness. His journey from self-destruction to a fulfilled life inspires men to reclaim their health, strengthen their mindset, and nurture their relationships. Cameron is a dedicated father, husband, and fitness advocate, leading by example as he helps others transform their lives. Key Takeaways: Rebuilding After Rock Bottom: Cameron explains how a sudden job loss and the impending birth of his second child forced him to reevaluate his life and make drastic changes to reclaim his health and relationships. Prioritizing Personal Growth: The importance of waking up early, focusing on personal development, and how dedicating time to reading, reflection, and physical fitness transformed his mindset. From Destruction to Selflessness: Cameron shares how embracing a higher purpose beyond personal pleasure helped him reconnect with his faith and heal his relationship with his wife and family. Physical and Mental Fitness: Discover how fitness, nutrition, and mindset were pivotal in Cameron’s journey of transformation, helping him become the role model he wanted to be for his children. The Man Up Dad Movement: Cameron’s new mission is to help other men who feel stuck in destructive patterns find their strength, purpose, and connection by focusing on their physical, spiritual, and relationship health. This episode is a must-listen for men who want to regain control over their lives and become their best selves in every aspect—mind, body, and soul.   Check Here Below Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send Avik Chakraborty a message on PodMatch, here: DM on PM

19 Syys 202424min

Riding the Waves of Success: Surfing, Business, and Longevity with Jeremy Ryan

Riding the Waves of Success: Surfing, Business, and Longevity with Jeremy Ryan

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sana sits down with professional surfer and entrepreneur Jeremy Ryan to explore his incredible journey from winning national surf titles to competing globally in the World Surf League. Jeremy shares how he transitioned from professional surfing to running multiple businesses, including a marketing agency and a surf school. He also reveals his health and longevity protocols that have kept him at the top of his game well into his 40s, along with tips on balancing physical health, entrepreneurship, and a fulfilling life. About the Guest: Jeremy Ryan is a seasoned professional surfer with over 15 years of experience, having competed in the World Surf League and won a national surf title at the age of 19. Born and raised in California, Jeremy's love for surfing evolved into a multifaceted career. Beyond his surfing success, he is the co-founder of WIT, a clothing brand, and the founder of SPF Surf, a thriving surf school. After his surfing sponsor went bankrupt, Jeremy pivoted into the business world, launching his own web and graphic design agency, allowing him to maintain a flexible lifestyle. Now in his mid-40s, he continues to surf while managing his businesses and prioritizing health and wellness. Key Takeaways: Adaptability in the Face of Change: Jeremy's story illustrates the importance of pivoting in your career, especially when faced with unexpected challenges like losing sponsorships. Balance Between Passion and Business: Jeremy managed to combine his passion for surfing with his business ventures, creating a life of flexibility and fulfillment. Health and Longevity Strategies: Learn about Jeremy’s exercise and nutrition routines that help him maintain peak performance and surf as well as (or better than) in his 20s. Time Management for Entrepreneurs: Despite running multiple businesses, Jeremy continues to surf regularly by maintaining strict time management and prioritizing his mental and physical well-being. Self-Discipline and Focus: Jeremy’s journey emphasizes dedication, from his early days perfecting his surfing skills to his business acumen in the face of setbacks. Learning for Listeners: Strategies for balancing professional passion with financial security. How to maintain peak performance in a physically demanding sport into your 40s and beyond. Practical tips for entrepreneurs looking to pivot and grow new ventures while staying grounded in their passions. Target Listeners: Surfing and action sports enthusiasts looking for inspiration and advice on sustaining a long career. Entrepreneurs and aspiring business owners interested in balancing multiple ventures. Individuals interested in longevity, health, and wellness practices. Anyone facing career transitions or looking for motivation to pivot toward new opportunities while maintaining personal passions. Check Here Below Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send Avik Chakraborty a message on PodMatch, here: DM on PM

19 Syys 202427min

Effective Communication and Leadership: Bridging the Gap with Jeremy Doran

Effective Communication and Leadership: Bridging the Gap with Jeremy Doran

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, Avik Chakraborty welcomes Jeremy Doran, a renowned author, professional speaker, and leadership coach. Jeremy shares his unique background in mechanical engineering and psychology, and how it informs his coaching approach. They discuss the importance of effective communication, leadership, and understanding individual perspectives. Jeremy also shares insights from his podcast, Neuro Conversant Leadership, and his experiences growing up as the youngest of 10 siblings. About the Guest: Jeremy Doran is an accomplished author, professional speaker, and leadership coach with a background in mechanical engineering and psychology. He specializes in coaching STEM professionals to become better communicators and leaders. Key Takeaways: 1. Effective communication is crucial for leadership success. 2. Understanding individual perspectives and differences is key to successful communication. 3. Coaching involves listening, adapting, and continuous learning. 4. Curiosity and asking questions are essential for growth and improvement. 5. Leadership involves empowering others and providing frameworks for success. Most Important Listener Takeaways: 1. Recognize the importance of effective communication in leadership. 2. Be curious and open to learning from others. 3. Understand and appreciate individual differences. 4. Foster a culture of empowerment and growth. 5. Develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence. Actionable Advice for Listeners: 1. Practice active listening and ask clarifying questions. 2. Seek feedback and be open to constructive criticism. 3. Develop emotional intelligence through self-reflection and awareness. 4. Foster a growth mindset and continuous learning. 5. Empower others by providing frameworks for success. Recommended Resources: 1. Jeremy Doran's podcast, Neuro Conversant Leadership 2. Jeremy Doran's books, including his upcoming second book on communicating with people who are different from you 3. Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) assessment Target Audience: 1. Business professionals 2. STEM professionals 3. Leaders and managers 4. Individuals seeking personal growth and development 5. Anyone interested in effective communication and leadership   Check Here Below Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send Avik Chakraborty a message on PodMatch, here: DM on PM

19 Syys 202418min

Mastering Personal Development: Networking, Meaningful Connections, and Financial Stability - Bill Barnett

Mastering Personal Development: Networking, Meaningful Connections, and Financial Stability - Bill Barnett

In this episode of "Healthy Mind, Healthy Life," host Sana welcomes Bill Barnett, a seasoned executive with extensive experience in television, film, radio, and digital technologies. Bill shares his insights on personal development, focusing on networking, building meaningful connections, leveraging strengths, and achieving financial stability. He emphasizes the importance of humility, collaboration, and being curious in forming successful relationships. Guest: Bill Barnett - CEO and President of numerous companies - Current work with Smarter Minds Network - Supports job seekers, entrepreneurs, and career changers - Expertise in business, networking, strategic relationships, and effective communication Key Takeaways: 1. Humility and collaboration are essential for personal and professional growth. 2. Networking should focus on building genuine connections, not just exchanging business cards. 3. Identify and leverage your strengths for long-term career success. 4. Financial stability provides security, peace of mind, and flexibility in decision-making. 5. Start building your professional network early, ideally during college. 6. Be curious and find out about other people's interests and expertise. 7. Strategic networking involves helping others and seeking people who can help your career.   Check Here Below Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send Avik Chakraborty a message on PodMatch, here: DM on PM

19 Syys 202422min

Finding Your Flow: Living the Life You Were Meant to Live with Maren

Finding Your Flow: Living the Life You Were Meant to Live with Maren

In this enlightening episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik sits down with Maren, a business evolution speaker, executive awareness coach, and co-founder of the Soulful Leader Project. Together, they explore the transformative power of finding your flow, integrating personal and professional lives, and living with greater fulfillment. Maren shares her journey from success-driven burnout to a life of ease, grace, and deeper meaning, offering practical advice on stepping into flow and aligning your life’s work with your true calling. About the Guest: Maren is a seasoned business evolve speaker, executive awareness coach, and flow consultant. She is the co-founder of the Soulful Leader Project and co-host of the Soulful Leader podcast. After achieving success across multiple businesses and in the dance world, Maren realized the toll constant striving took on her well-being. Now, she helps individuals and businesses integrate their personal and professional lives to find true flow, balance, and purpose. Key Takeaways: Flow Comes from Integration: Maren emphasizes that true flow isn't about separating personal and professional lives but integrating them in a meaningful way. Strive Less, Flow More: Her shift from a "hustle" mentality to one focused on ease and grace was triggered by burnout, showing the importance of rethinking the traditional approach to success. The Inside-Out Approach to Success: Maren discusses the reversal of common thinking—it's not external achievements that bring fulfillment, but inner alignment that leads to true success. Breaking the "Never Enough" Cycle: High achievers often feel like they're constantly chasing the next goal. Maren advises focusing on internal validation and enoughness, rather than external accomplishments. Richer Relationships Through Flow: By finding flow, Maren enhanced her personal relationships, which now thrive on deeper, more fulfilling conversations and connections. Lessons from Dance: As a champion dancer, Maren draws parallels between dance and life, highlighting the importance of partnership, listening, and being in sync with others to achieve flow. Check Here Below Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? Send Avik Chakraborty a message on PodMatch, here: DM on PM

17 Syys 202426min

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