Sex on Daddy's Lap

Ep 675: Why Choose Shifters and Heat Ratings Author Imogen Knowed on Writing Cozy Sweet Spicy Romance. **You can watch the video version on YouTube at Ruan Willow Podcaster. There is NO excerpt in the YouTube version, please visit podcast apps to get the excerpt. The excerpt is from "Whispers, Whiskers, and Wine" and is at the first part of this episode. Romance Author Imogen Knowed Reveals the Secrets Behind Writing Polyamorous "Why Choose" Stories. Ever wondered how authors craft realistic polyamorous romance without relying on supernatural shortcuts? Romance author Imogen Knowed pulls back the curtain on her unique approach to "why choose" stories and shifter romances, explaining why she ditched the fated-mate trope for something far more complex. In this candid conversation with host Ruan Willow, Imogen discusses her latest works including **Whispers, Whiskers and Wine** and the upcoming **Dates and Dead Bodies**—a cozy murder mystery that blends polyamorous romance with small-town intrigue. She opens up about the challenges of marketing "spicy" romance when platforms suppress erotic content, the wildly subjective nature of heat ratings, and her meticulous research into polyamory to create authentic relationship dynamics. From her recursive drafting process to using a "naughty words" thesaurus, Imogen shares the nitty-gritty details of crafting explicit scenes while balancing entertainment with subtle education. She explores the evolution of cozy romance toward more explicit content and debates whether fiction should teach readers about anatomy and consent—or simply provide escapist entertainment. **Ready to dive into the world of authentic polyamorous romance?** Listen to discover how one author is reshaping the genre with realistic characters, thoughtful consent, and unapologetically explicit storytelling. Key Takeaways: • Erotic romance faces significant marketing barriers—heat ratings and content warnings can severely limit discoverability.   • She pairs a cozy, "sweet‑and‑spicy" vibe with explicit group sex and polyamory, doing detailed research to portray realistic consent.   • Imogen only started writing impulsively in 2022, drafts as a hybrid plotter‑pantser, and has had to accept she can't please everyone. Connect with indie author Imogen Knowed:  Instagram and Threads Imongenknowed Books:  Whispers, Whiskers, and Wine (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4okmDhn Dates and Dead Bodies (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4nIAOwu Podcast Host Ruan Willow's latest book release: John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, Book 2 in the Servicing the Work Men Series https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Episode 673: Enjoy a Sensual Sexual Ride Through Ruan's Brain with Erotic Improv as she reads and improvs in her monologue recording. The sensuality and eroticism are on overload with steamy spicy scenes, ASMR sounds, and immersion narration that will undulate your brain through waves of pleasure and braingasm. Romance and sex collide with sensuality in the little, short erotic snippets and scenes. Pleasure is your birthright as are the natural highs your body makes as you climax. It's your baby, take it! It belongs to you! Enjoy this luxurious immersion into sensuality with the focuses of: sexuality,  health and fitness,  sexual health,  mental health,  mental wellness,  relationships,  self care,  self discovery,  personal growth,  pleasure, healing,  self love erotic romance fiction short stories, microfiction shorts Ruan's books mentioned in the episode: Beach House Views (thriller, erotic romance, diverse characters, suspense, dark romance) on Theo Reads, read chapter 1 for free! https://www.theoreads.com/story/71ba59ce-badd-4472-90af-b2d324c6a332/view John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, hotwife VIxen, Stag dominant man, swingers, throuple, sex date, age gap, reverse age gap https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Ep 672: The Unfiltered Truth: What it's like to be an Adult Performer in the Industry with Dante Diggz. Hear it straight from Dante who strives to spread Industry Awareness about what it's really like within the community of the Adult Industry. Sex is labeled as evil and bad by many, hear from a man who speaks his mind about sex, sexuality, and culture. Don't miss as he shares his personal story of sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, what it means to perform for the camera, and how this career has affected his personal love life. # From Warehouse Worker to Adult Industry Success: The Dante Diggz Story **Ever wondered what it really takes to transition from a regular 9-to-5 to becoming a successful adult performer?** Dante Diggz shares his incredible journey from working at a warehouse to becoming a recognized name in the adult entertainment industry. In this eye-opening episode, Dante reveals how his background in fitness and the swinger lifestyle naturally led him into content creation when his personal training business declined during the pandemic. He breaks down the realities of turning sexuality into a profession - from the technical challenges of performing while managing camera angles to the rigorous safety protocols that define the industry. The conversation dives deep into what makes someone truly skilled in intimacy, with Dante emphasizing that great lovers prioritize their partner's pleasure and practice selfless attention to detail. He also discusses the business side, including his Urban X Award nominations, building a brand beyond performing, and the strategic decisions that drive content creation. Dante doesn't shy away from the sacrifices either - the loss of privacy, relationship challenges, and how the work requires treating intimate moments as professional productions rather than personal connections. **Ready to hear the unfiltered truth about turning passion into profession? Listen to the full episode now.** Connect with Dante Diggz on social media platforms as dantediggz https://instagram.com/dantediggz99 Find him also associated with Red Bottom Productions. Key Takeaways: • A blue‑collar-to-content-creator pivot: Dante left a warehouse job and personal‑training to monetize sexuality—driven by a swinger lifestyle and fitness—showing sex work can emerge from everyday jobs and subcultures.   • Sex as craft, not intimacy: performers deliberately frame scenes as production—focused on stamina, tailored technique, attentiveness—and separate personal intimacy from on‑camera work.   • Safety and business savvy matter: routine testing, careful navigation of platform limits, awards/fame, and a strategic shift toward production/branding are central to a sustainable career in paid content. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Episode 671: NSFW erotic audio, She Triggers His Dominant Mode with a BJ & a TF, A Sensual ASMR Erotic Improv Story. Enjoy this erotica fiction scene, a spicy romp between Candy and Kevin where she desperately wants sex, but Kevin is working, so she employs her best moves that trigger his Dom Mode, a BJ and a TF. It works! They fall into hot sex right in the entryway of their home. Enjoy this sound filled sensual erotic scene, erotic audio, erotic romance that will get your brain enjoying the lush indulgent ride! Contains dirty talk, love bites, details of an intimacy relationship between a committed man and woman devoted to each other, aroused by each other, explicit intimate scenes and language. They get hot! They're in love and they wanna bone each other!  A lot!!!! Sexual health is mental health, don't ignore yours! Enjoy your sexuality today and every day! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Ep 670: Erotic Romance fiction excerpt, MMF Age Gap Younger Men, Older Woman, age gap threesome Sex Scene from John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures Book.  Book Blurb: Laney, John, and Anderson have a new arrangement. In bed, they luckily have a large one at the house. Laney likes the middle of the mattress the best, except for when being draped over the edge for thigh clapping exercises because those give her the most satisfying workouts. The repairmen still come, the dreamy dryer repair guy, then the flirty young man window washer, and the enthusiastic nerdy IT Technician, who are all at the house in turn to fix all the broken things. They are up for the spicy extras of visiting the house to Laney's ecstatic delight, too, because she loves to be used by them. John, being the alpha male coordinator of the events, is the most efficient top director, but Anderson is never slacking off either as second dominant in command. He keeps watch to be sure Laney's safe, too, as she entertains the visitors to the house. She's the most talented at it, plus she loves being shared! But Laney's worried. Anderson has met someone, and she fears it will break their new way of life that she loves so much. They all adore their triad union, so why does it have to change? Living the hotwife swinger lifestyle may not be as easygoing and smooth as they once had thought. This is Book 2 in the Servicing the Work Men Series. Subtropes list:  power plays, spicy romance, BDSM, impact play, polyamory romance, throuple, alternative lifestyle, wife being shared, empowerment, exhibitionism, voyeurism, married couple, Dom/sub dynamics, strangers to lovers hotwife, reverse age gap older woman, younger man romance relationships, later in life hot, alternative lifestyle education, consent is a turn on and essential. Get your dirty romance books for women, dirty books for men, filthy fiction (with romance too) from Ruan Willow! She writes adult books for women that are a dirty smutty feel good romance steamy read. Get the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Get Book 1 Servicing the Work Men for only $0.99 cents (through the end of October 2025): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Syys 28min

Ep 669: Adult Performer Pixxxie LaRue on Extreme Fetish Work and Industry Safety What happens when a 4'10" performer becomes one of the industry's most sought-after extreme fetish specialists? In this candid interview, adult performer Pixxxie LaRue opens up about her blossoming career, releasing nine DVDs in just one year and specializing in controversial scenes like waterboarding. LaRue discusses the dual mindset required for extreme performances - maintaining professional awareness while sometimes becoming genuinely immersed in the experience. She emphasizes that **safety measures and consent are always paramount**, crediting Red Bottom Productions Studio for creating secure working environments. The conversation explores LaRue's journey of sexual exploration and how her work helps others discover new interests safely. She shares insights about her business-minded approach to the industry, leveraging her marketing background to create a unique niche rather than working through traditional agencies. LaRue also touches on important topics like women's sexual health, the role of self-exploration, and defending adult entertainment as both entertainment and educational content that promotes consent education. She discusses her recent AVN nomination and various platforms where fans can find her content, particularly recommending MintStars, a new sex worker-owned platform. Ready to hear more about navigating extreme fetish work safely and professionally? Listen to the full episode for LaRue's unfiltered insights into the adult entertainment industry. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Introducing Pixxxie LaRue Porn Star 00:02:08 - Exploring Extreme Kinks and Boundaries 00:06:12 - Finding Pixxxiie LaRue Online 00:25:03 - Consent and Communication in Adult Films 00:27:15 - Extreme Adult Film Scene Discussion 00:30:46 - Performing with Creativity and Authenticity 00:35:58 - Choosing Authenticity Over Masking 00:45:38 - Consent Makes Everything Better 00:48:10 - Family Support in Adult Entertaiment 00:51:05 - Online Trolls Boost My Views 01:03:15 - Positive Fan Impact and Representation Key takeaways: • LaRue maintains a complex dual mindset during extreme scenes, balancing professional awareness with genuine psychological immersion while filming • The adult industry has developed sophisticated safety protocols for extreme content, with studios like Red Bottom Productions prioritizing secure working environments • Sex workers are pioneering cryptocurrency-based platforms like MintStars to circumvent traditional financial restrictions and maintain greater control over their businesses Connect with Pixxxie:  Spicy https://allmylinks.com/pixxxielarue Social Media Twitter/X - @wee_pixxxie  Social Media  Tiktok - @wee.pixxxie.larue Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Syys 1h 12min

Neighborhood Sex Secrets Excerpt Mind Blowing Oral Munch scene... Allen is visiting Alexa at her house and she's home alone so they can get busy right on the living room couch. They chat and then things erupt into super stimulating, ultra hot oral! Get the ebook for FREE right now (only through 9/25/25) on Amazon https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Get the safe for work cover edition of Neighborhood Secrets: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsecretssfwcover Get a signed copy of the book directly from Ruan: https://payhip.com/b/XUFfr Get FREE EROTIC BOOKS! Through 9/25 only https://storyoriginapp.com/to/GKR9gNx Book blurb: Alexa has missed out for long enough. Life with her ex had stuck her with a vanilla sex life. All the deep, dark fantasies she had hidden away began to bubble up once she became single. Her journey toward sexual freedom skyrocketed when she learned about neighborhood sex secrets at a pool party where she was suddenly calling two neighbors 'Daddy'. As she melted into the secret sex world emerging before her in the seemingly boring square mile of homes, she deliciously found herself assimilating into the hidden underworld of an alternative lifestyle. Her sexual explorations exploded as she let go of traditional societal conventions and chose to take chances. Instead of playing alone in her bedroom, she began to live out the raunchiest depths of her fantasies as her new partners set out to help her fulfill her sexual bucket list. Alexa spread her wings doing taboo acts in real life that, until then, she'd only watched on a screen or lived merely in her dreams. Her Daddies became her guardians, deliverers of her desires, and directors of sexual heights she never thought were possible. But then her new world gets threatened. Someone doesn't want her in the new triad of Daddy, Daddy, and good girl. Not only can the good guys turn bad, but bad guys also come back, and only the protected good girls can withstand the storms. Through it all, she finally understands one thing for sure, she is most definitely a good girl, and good girls have the most fun when they follow their 'Daddies'. An HEA spicy romance, a Daddy Dom/submissive story of control and submission that flourishes as mutual sexual freedoms. The book contains elements of mild BDSM, multiple partners, exhibitionism, cheating, experimentation, and lots of pleasure. ALL acts are consensual and characters are 18 and over. Enjoy a story of fantasy later-in-life exploration into open sexuality. Some dark romance themes. New audiobook release Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretpartiesaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Syys 19min

Ep 664: Ever wondered how childhood experiences secretly shape your sexual desires and why most women struggle to ask for what they want in bed? In this eye-opening episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Tash Doherty (Miss Educated), a London-born writer, author, and sexuality advocate now based in Mexico who's on a mission to make the world "shamelessly sexy." Tash breaks down her three-pillar approach to sexual empowerment: discover what you want, believe you deserve it, and ask for it. The conversation dives deep into how family and cultural shame impact our sexuality, with Tash sharing insights from her upcoming **Sex Journal** launching on Kickstarter. This beautifully designed journal features 20 poems and themed prompts exploring ecstasy, obsession, longing, and desire—all designed to help women reduce shame and align their sex lives with their values. From discussing how childhood associations create unexpected fetishes to exploring the healing power of erotic writing, Tash traces sexuality's role throughout history—from Sappho to the Song Dynasty. She shares her journey from teen romance novelist to sex blogger, including viral pieces like "Get a Man Who Loves Your Bush." The duo also tackles the complex role of pornography in sexual education, highlighting ethical alternatives, and emphasizing the importance of self-exploration through masturbation and quality toys. Ready to explore your own sexual narrative without shame? Tune in for this transformative conversation about reclaiming pleasure and rewriting your story, thereby also improving your relationships.  Key Takeaways: • A simple three-pillars formula—know what you want, believe you deserve it, ask for it—reframes sexual confidence as a learnable practice.   • Erotic journaling can dismantle familial shame and scaled into a mainstream coffee-table Sex Journal launched on Kickstarter.   • Stigmatized practices (masturbation, toys, "healthier" porn, open communication) are portrayed as deliberate tools to build self-knowledge, pleasure, and agency. Chapters Timeline: 00:00:02 - Shamelessly Sexy 00:04:23 - Writing a Sex Journal for Women 00:07:23 - Shame and Sexuality 00:12:37 - Exploring Female Sexuality and History 00:16:09 - Exploring Sexuality Through Design 00:18:12 - Achieving Orgasm Equality 00:28:16 - Consent, communication, and sexual exploration 00:30:56 - Orgasm Equality and Sexual Empowerment 00:38:50 - Sex Tech and Favorite Toys 00:39:38 - Sex Toys: Tools Not Replacements 00:43:32 - Sex Toys Changed My Life, sexual health 00:48:09 - Clitoris Shapes, Stimulation, and Orgasm, libido 00:52:17 - Vulva vs Vagina, female anatomy Connect with Miss Educated, Tash http://misseducated.substack.com/ http://tashdoherty.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Syys 59min